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]]> en-us Mon, 12 Mar 2012 05:02:55 GMT wfourie@gcofonline.org jp@sieck.org <![CDATA[Where Are We Going? Stewarding Our Lives and the Lives of Others]]> This past Sunday Mary Custalow shared with us on the topic of “Where are we going?”
Principles of Stewardship:
1 Corinthians 4:12 & 1 Peter 4:10
1. Nothing we are given belongs to us, it is God’s and we are called to manage it for Him. (1Corinthians 6:19-20)
2. Everyone will give an account of their stewardship (Luke 16:1-2, 12:42-44)
Understanding Our Future
- What awaits me in the future lends weight and gives perspective to my present.
- Two points make a straight line.
o I belong to God
o I’m going to God (Ephesians 4:1)
How do we get there?
- A heart to carry the call (Isaiah 43:1b)
o Stay in His presence
- Eyes to see the goal (Philippians 3:7-9, 13-14)
o Evaluate and prioritize (1 John 3:2-3)
- Wisdom to navigate the course (Proverbs 1:5, Psalm 37:25)
o Rely on God (Hebrews 7:25)
o Identify and defeat your enemies (Psalm 41:11, Habakkuk 2:2)
Practical Application
1. Do you know where you are going in life? This seems to be such a cliché, but do you know?
2. Does the knowing give you peace? Or if you do not know, are you fearful?
3. Hoe do you stand on the issue of stewardship? Do you feel that you have a biblical understanding of what stewardship is meant to be?
4. As you look at where you are heading (the future), what helps you to keep on “track” as it were? Mary lists some things that can help us get there. Do you identify with any of them?
5. What are some additional things we can do to “get there?”
]]> Mon, 14 May 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=70962 <![CDATA[Developing a Spiritual Mind: Part 2]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with the theme, “Developing a Spiritual Mind.”
A Spiritual Mind:
1. It discerns spiritual truth
2. It detects evil thoughts (Mark 4:9-13, Romans 12:2, Colossians 1:9-10)
We need to be able to detect evil thoughts (John 8:43-45, Revelation 12:10).
Lies, Accusations & Condemnations - Assaults on the mind:
1. God didn’t really mean that
2. God doesn’t love me
3. I’m not good enough (Ephesians 2:1-3, 2:8-9)
4. I’m not his child
5. God isn’t good
6. I don’t deserve a blessing
7. God is punishing me
8. God doesn’t judge – He’s all love
9. I’m not gifted
10. I can’t recover from this
11. I don’t have anything to contribute (1 Corinthians 12:18, 12:22)
12. I can’t change (1 Corinthians 10:13, Philippians 1:6)
13. I’ll never accomplish my destiny
14. I have a right to be mad
15. I’ve earned it – I can spend it (Deuteronomy 8:17-18)
16. I’ll never be one in my marriage – we are to different (Matthew 19:5, 1 peter 3:7)
17. I will die early (Matthew 6:26-27, Psalm 139:16, 27:13)
18. Others don’t appreciate me (Romans 15:7)
The effects of Lies & Accusations
1. There is fear and torment
2. It kills faith
3. It produces a culture of discouragement
Practical Application
1. What have been some lies that you have believed in your life?
2. What has been the effect of believing those lies?
3. Are you able to recognize from where lies come in your life?
4. No doubt there are some lies that you have believed about yourself that is not listed above. Put some time aside and try to list out all the different lies you have believed. As you do this you will probably realize that you need a lot of time to really think and remember the different lies. Do that this week and ask God to come and show you His truth regarding it.
5. What are some other effects that believing in lies can produce?
Believing lies can be so easy at times, and yet, they can have devastating effects. We can base our lives on a lie and live life according to that lie. This is but one reason why we need to be vigilant in our thinking and develop a spiritual mind to help us to detect these lies and expel them. May we all do all that we can to keep developing a spiritual mind!
]]> Tue, 8 May 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=70767 <![CDATA[Developing a Spiritual Mind]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest spoke about “Developing a Spiritual Mind.”
Developing a spiritual mind (Colossians 1:28-29, Matthew 16:5-12, 16:13-19, 16:21-23, 1 Corinthians 2:6-16, Romans 8:5-7)
1. Receiving a spiritual mind (1 Corinthians 2:12)
2. What does a spiritual mind do?
a. Discerns the truth (Revelation 2:7)
b. Detect evil thoughts (2 Corinthians 10:3-5)
What can I do to develop my spiritual mind?
1. Pray for it (Psalm 27:4, Psalm 119:135, 119:144)
2. Read His word (Psalm 119:11, 119:105, 119:130-131, 119:147-148, Joshua 1:8, 2 Timothy 3:16-17)
3. Walk in humility (Philippians 2:5-9, Luke 10:21, Isaiah 66:1-2)
4. Obedience (James 1:22-25, 1:5-8)
Practical Application
1. Pastor Ernest speaks about being able to discern the truth above. What does this mean to you?
2. Have you ever been able to discern the truth in your life? To what degree? What does this say about the condition of your “spiritual mind?”
3. How have you tried to develop a spiritual mind? What are some of the steps that you have taken, for example: pray for it…
4. What do you find helps you the most in this area and what distract you from it?
5. Try and spend this week focusing on “developing your spiritual mind.’ Be attentive to exactly what it is that you think and what keeps your mind “captive.”
]]> Mon, 30 Apr 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=70497 <![CDATA[How To Overcome The Temptation that Death is Final]]>
Please click play above for the complete sermon notes.
]]> Mon, 16 Apr 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=69958 <![CDATA[The Resurrection Proclaims...]]> This past Sunday was Easter Sunday and Pastor Ernest shared with us what it is that the Resurrection Proclaims.
1 Corinthians 15:12-20
The Resurrection Proclaims…
1. Jesus is Lord
a. Swoon Theory
b. Stolen Body Theories (John 10:17-18, Luke 18:31-33, John 11:25-26)
2. New life is experienced now (Romans 6:4-11, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 2:20, John 4:14, John 7:38, John 10:10)
3. A day of reckoning (John 5:28-29, Hebrews 9:27, 1 Corinthians 15:54-58, 1 Corinthians 1:3-5, 1 Corinthians 15:53-55)
4. Death is not final
a. Death is not the final word
b. Fear of death broken
c. New life follows death (Psalm 27:13)
]]> Tue, 10 Apr 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=69751 <![CDATA[The Wonder of the Cross]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of The Wonder of the Cross in preparation for Easter.
The Wonder of the Cross:
1. The judgment of the cross (Romans 3:23-26, Hebrews 2:17-18, 1 John 2:1-2)
2. The suffering of the cross (Isaiah 53:4-5, 10, 1 Peter 2:21-24, 1 Peter 3:18, 1 Peter 4:1-2)
a. Suffering of condescension
b. Suffering of torture
c. Suffering of ridicule
d. Suffering of death
e. Suffering of separation
3. The wisdom of the cross (1 Corinthians 1:18-25, 2 Corinthians 5:21, 1 Corinthians 1:30)
4. The love of the cross (John 3:16, 1 John 3:16,1 John 4:9-10, John 15:13, Romans 5:6-10)
Practical Application
1. When you look at the cross, what is it that you think off?
2. What does the cross mean to you? How has it impacted or changed your life?
3. Take some time this week and meditate on the cross. Ask God to speak to you and to show you His heart regarding this week and what it is He would have you change in your life.
Pastor Ernest ended his sermon with this question: “What is your problem? When you look at the cross, what is your problem?” Let this question sink in a bit. Is there anything that is between you and Jesus right now? Lay it before His feet. Seek to live in such a place where nothing comes between you and Jesus. Let nothing “be your problem” when it comes to the cross.
]]> Mon, 2 Apr 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=69502 <![CDATA[The Way of the Cross]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of The Way of the Cross in preparation for Easter.
John 12:20-27 speaks about the last week of Jesus’ life.
The Way of the Cross (Matthew 20:17-19 & Matthew 16:24-27)
How Do You Implement The Way of the Cross?
1. Relinquish ownership (Galatians 2:20)
2. Relinquish control (John 12:27, John 5:19, Philippians 3:7-9, Matthew 19:21, Hebrews 10:32-34, Matthew 19:27-29 and Matthew 6:31-33)
3. Relinquish fleshly desires (Romans 6:11-13, Romans 12:1-2)
Philippians 2:3-8
Practical Application
1. What are the things that you usually relate to Easter?
2. As we approach Easter, are you aware of what it is that Jesus did for us on the Cross?
3. Pastor Ernest shared that the message of the cross for us is to die to ourselves. What are some ways that you have already done this in your life?
4. Are you aware of areas in your life that you still need to die to?
5. How are you going to die to yourself this Easter? Take some time from now until Easter to seek the Lord on what areas of your life that He wants you to die in.
]]> Mon, 26 Mar 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=69265 <![CDATA[Going On Pilgrimage]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of going on a pilgrimage and all that it entails.
Psalm 84 speaks to us about going on a pilgrimage.
What is Pilgrimage?
- A journey to a sacred place for the purpose of worship and receiving blessing.
- Jewish Tradition
o Remember what God has done
o Repent from wrong thinking and behaviors
o Realign with the purposes of God
o Rededicate your heart to living for God
o Refocus on His Kingdom goals and the future
- N.T. Pilgrimages (Acts 18:18-21)
- Christian Era
- Psalms of Ascent (Psalm 27:8, Jeremiah 29:13, Psalm 120:1-7, Psalm 121:1-2)
Going On Pilgrimage
- What do I leave behind?
- Where am I going? (Psalm 84:5-7, Psalm 84:10)
- How do I get there?
o Fasting
o Reading
o Prayer (Psalm 131:1-3)
o Repentance (Romans 6:12-14)
o Sacrifice
Practical Application
1. Have you ever gone on a pilgrimage of sorts? Was this an impacting experience for you?
2. The Jewish Tradition shows a lot of things that happened when they took a pilgrimage. Which on one of the five listed would most like to experience?
3. Do you think that it would be possible for you to go on your own pilgrimage? Do you think this would be beneficial to you in any way?
4. Pastor Ernest lists five things that we can do while we are on our own pilgrimage. Take a look at the five practices and write down what you desire to achieve through each practice. Then, try and set some time aside to actually “go on a pilgrimage” and practice these things.
5. Be expectant as to what God can do for you in this time. Be mindful of Him and try to press in whenever you can, whether you’re at home or at work.
The journey towards God is inevitably our own journey. As we seek Him, we discover Him and in turn we discover who we really are. May this pilgrimage open your eyes to more of Him and to His purposes in your life.
]]> Mon, 12 Mar 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=68693 <![CDATA[The Father’s Love: It Changes Everything - Part 6]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued on with his series on The Father’s Love.
God Pursues Us:
1. To tell us he loves us
2. To bless us with His favor
3. To hang out with us
4. To reveal Himself to us
5. To heal our brokenness
The Father’s Love Transforms Us (2 Corinthians 5:17, Ezekiel 26:26, Romans 8:29, Romans 12:1-2, Romans 8:28)
1. Transformation from pain (Genesis 50:20, Job 42:5-6, 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, Romans 8:18, 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, Philippians 1:6, 2 Corinthians 3:18
The Father’s Love Disciplines Us (Proverbs 13:24, Proverbs 3:12, Hebrews 12:5-13)
The Father’s Love Brings Life (John 10:10, 2 Corinthians 4:7-11)

Practical Application
1. Knowing that God pursues us is very humbling. How do you feel knowing this?
2. Does this challenge you to do certain things different in your life?
3. How have you been transformed by God’s love?
4. What has been you experience with discipline in regards to God’s love?
5. Think of some practical ways that you can live everyday remembering that God loves you and try to practice that this week. Try and compare it to other weeks where you maybe are not as concentrated on the Father’s love.
It is so easy for us to get caught up in the busyness of life and forget to think about such things as the Father’s love. This is a huge detriment to us and we don’t even realize it most of the time. May you be ever more aware of the Father’s goodness and love towards you as walk out each day.
]]> Mon, 27 Feb 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=68111 <![CDATA[The Father’s Love: It Changes How We Relate - Part 5]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued on with his series on The Father’s Love.
The Father’s Love: It Changes How We Relate
1. The Father’s Love Pursues Us (2 Peter 3:9, Matthew 18:11-14, Revelation 3:20, Ephesians 2:4-5)
2. Why Does God’s Love Pursue Us?
a. To tell us He loves us
b. To reveal Himself to us
c. To heal our brokenness (Isaiah 61:1-3)
d. To hang out with us (Revelation 21:3-4, Isaiah 43:1-4)
3. The Father’s Love Gives (Isaiah 1:17, Psalm 103:1-13, Romans 8:31-32, 2 Corinthians 2:9, Job 7:17, 2 Corinthians 9:6-9)
4. The Father’s Love Transforms Us (2 Corinthians 3:18, Romans 8:29)
Practical Application
1. Knowing that God pursues us is very humbling. How do you feel knowing this?
2. Does this challenge you to do certain things different in your life?
3. If you had to give a reason, why would you say God pursues you?
4. How does the Father’s love transform us?
5. Think of some practical ways that you can live everyday remembering that God loves you and try to practice that this week. Try and compare it to other weeks where you maybe are not as concentrated on the Father’s love.
It is so easy for us to get caught up in the busyness of life and forget to think about such things as the Father’s love. This is a huge detriment to us and we don’t even realize it most of the time. May you be ever more aware of the Father’s goodness and love towards you as walk out each day.
]]> Mon, 20 Feb 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=67792 <![CDATA[The Father’s Love: It Changes How We Relate]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued on with his series on The Father’s Love.
The Father’s Love: It Changes Everything
1. God is love
2. The Father’s love is eternal
3. The Father’s love is unconditional
4. The Father’s love is limitless
5. The Father’s love is immutable
6. The Father’s love is personal
7. The Father’s love is affectionate
8. The Father’s love is sacrificial
9. The Father’s love is strong
10. The Father’s Love casts out fear
Scriptures showing us the Father’s Love:
John 13:34-35, 14:10, 14:20-21, 14:23, 15:9-10, 15:12-13, 17:11, 17:20-26
1 John 2:9-11, 3:11, 2:24, 2:28, 3:10, 3:14-15, 3:16-17, 3:18, 3:23-24a, 4:7-11, 4:12, 4:15-16, 4:19, 4:20-21, 5:1-3
2 John 1:5-6
Ephesians 5:1-2
Matthew 5:48
1 John 2:6
1 Corinthians 12:20-26
Revelation 2:1-5
Ephesians 1:15
Why is loving one another important?
1. The World will know Jesus
2. God commands us to do so
3. We abide in Him
4. It builds and strengthens the church (Ephesians 4:16)
5. We become like God
Practical Application
1. When you hear the words, “The Father’s Love”, what do you think about?
2. Do you find it easy to think about God as a father that loves you? If not, why?
3. How has your life been impacted by the realization that God loves you? Can you try and imaging what your life would be like now if this were missing from your life?
4. Think of some practical ways that you can live everyday remembering that God loves you and try to practice that this week. Try and compare it to other weeks where you maybe are not as concentrated on the Father’s love.
It is so easy for us to get caught up in the busyness of life and forget to think about such things as the Father’s love. This is a huge detriment to us and we don’t even realize it most of the time. May you be ever more aware of the Father’s goodness and love towards you as walk out each day.
]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=67639 <![CDATA[The Father’s Love: It Changes Everything - Part 2 & 3]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued on with his series on The Father’s Love.
The Father’s Love: It Changes Everything
1. God is love
2. The Father’s love is eternal
3. The Father’s love is unconditional
4. The Father’s love is limitless (Ephesians 3:16-19)
5. The Father’s love is immutable (Hebrews 13:8, Malachi 3:6, James 1:17)
6. The Father’s love is personal (Psalm 139:1-3, Matthew 10:29-31, Matthew 6:26, Revelations 2:17, John 11:5, John 11:35-36)
7. The Father’s love is affectionate (Romans 8:16-17, Revelation 21:3-4, John 14:2-3, John 17:22-23John 15:9, Zephaniah 3:17)
8. The Father’s love is sacrificial (John 3:16, 1 John 4:9-10, Romans 8:31-32, John 15:13, John 10:11,15)
9. The Father’s love is strong (Romans 8:35-39, Isaiah 43:1-4, John 10:28-29)
Practical Application
1. When you hear the words, “The Father’s Love”, what do you think about?
2. Do you find it easy to think about God as a father that loves you? If not, why?
3. How has your life been impacted by the realization that God loves you? Can you try and imaging what your life would be like now if this were missing from your life?
4. Think of some practical ways that you can live everyday remembering that God loves you and try to practice that this week. Try and compare it to other weeks where you maybe are not as concentrated on the Father’s love.
It is so easy for us to get caught up in the busyness of life and forget to think about such things as the Father’s love. This is a huge detriment to us and we don’t even realize it most of the time. May you be ever more aware of the Father’s goodness and love towards you as walk out each day.
]]> Wed, 1 Feb 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=67189 <![CDATA[The Father's Love: It Changes Everything]]>
This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest on the topic of the Father’s Love and how it impacts and ultimately changes our lives.
The Attributes of the Father’s Love
1. The Father is love (1 John 4:8)
2. It is eternal (Jeremiah 31:3, Ephesians 1:4-5)
3. The Father’s love is unconditional (Ephesians 2:1-5, Ephesians 2:1-5, Romans 5:8)
4. The Father’s love is limitless (1 John 3:1, 1 Corinthians 2:9, Ephesians 2:7, 3:16-19)
5. The Father’s love is immutable (Hebrews 13:8, Malachi 3:6, James 1:17)
6. The Father’s love is sacrificial (1 john 3:16, 4:9-10, Romans 8:31-32, John 15:13, 10:11, 15)
Practical Application
1. When you hear the words, “The Father’s Love”, what do you think about?
2. Do you find it easy to think about God as a father that loves you? If not, why?
3. How has your life been impacted by the realization that God loves you? Can you try and imaging what your life would be like now if this were missing from your life?
4. Think of some practical ways that you can live everyday remembering that God loves you and try to practice that this week. Try and compare it to other weeks where you maybe are not as concentrated on the Father’s love.
It is so easy for us to get caught up in the busyness of life and forget to think about such things as the Father’s love. This is a huge detriment to us and we don’t even realize it most of the time. May you be ever more aware of the Father’s goodness and love towards you as walk out each day.
]]> Tue, 24 Jan 2012 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=66891 <![CDATA[Christ In You, The Hope of Glory]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of “Christ In You, The Hope of Glory”.
Luke 1:26-38, Colossians 1:15-22 and Colossians 1:26-27 tells us about Jesus Christ. It tells us about the Hope of Glory that we have in Jesus Christ. It tells us that our hope is in Him, and that He is in us.
Christ In You, The Hope of Glory:
1. Impregnated By His Word
2. Chosen By His Grace (Luke 1:28, Ephesians 1:4-6, 1 Corinthians 6:6-11, 1 Corinthians 11:2, Romans 8:1, 1 Corinthians 2:9)
3. Empowered By His Spirit (Ephesians 3:20)
Practical Application
1. Christmas is around the corner. Take some time and reflect on the glory of God. Reflect upon Jesus Christ and the fact that He is our Hope of Glory.
2. As the Angel told Mary of what was going to happen to her, we see the three points above happen in her life. What do you think did she do prior to her visitation to “prepare” her life for it?
3. How can we live our lives to be ready for God to come and use us for His purposes?
May we all enter this season of Christmas mindful of Jesus Christ and all that He has done for us, both through His life and His death. We truly owe all good things to Him! May we remember that this Christmas as we celebrate His Life!
]]> Mon, 19 Dec 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=65784 <![CDATA[Preparing The Way for The Lord: Part 2]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of preparing the way for the Lord focusing on the book of Malachi.
Malachi 3:1, 4:5-6, Luke 1:16-17, Luke 1:76, Isaiah 40:3-4 and Matthew 3:1-3 speaks about one that will prepare the way for the Lord.
Preparing the way for the Lord:
1. Repentance
a. Worship
b. Giving
c. Divorce (Malachi 2:13-16)
d. Family Relations (Malachi 4:5-6, Ephesians 6:1-4)
Preparing a place for God’s presence: (Psalm 132:1-18)
1. Desire
2. Worship (Psalm 132:7-8)
3. Holiness (Psalm 132:9)
4. Faith (Psalm 132:11)
Practical Application
1. Have you found in your life that when you let go off/repent of certain things that it becomes easier to connect with God? What have been some things that you have let go off/repented off in the past?
2. What kind of an affect has this had on your relationship with God?
3. Pastor Ernest listed 4 things above that when once repented of prepares a way for the Lord in our lives. Are you able to identify with any of the four? What has been your experience?
4. What are different things that you find help prepare a place for God’s presence in your life?
5. Do you find practicing one of the 4 things listed above to help usher in the presence of God in your life?
6. What are some practical ways that you can grow in preparing a way not only for the Lord but also for His presence in your life this week?
]]> Mon, 12 Dec 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=65572 <![CDATA[Preparing For Christ ]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of preparing for Christ in preparations for the Christmas season.
Isaiah 40:3-5, Malachi 3:1, 4:5-6, Luke 1:13-17, 1:76-79 and Matthew 3:1-3 speaks to us about this theme of preparing for Christ.
The Malachi Back Drop:
587 – Captivity to Babylon
538 – Return from Babylon
516 – Temple Rebuild
458 – Ezra returns with Exiles
455 – Nehemiah restores and rebuilds
445-430 – Malachi’s repentance message
Repentance brings humility and softens the heart.
Malachi’s Message:
Malachi 1:2
1. Worship (Malachi 1:6-10)
2. Giving (Malachi 3:8-12, Deuteronomy 16:16-17)
Practical Application
1. What has been you tradition in regards to preparing for the Christmas season? How do you bring Jesus into this?
2. Do you see worship and giving as being a part of the Christmas season?
3. What are some practical ways that you can bring Jesus Christ into the Christmas season?
]]> Mon, 5 Dec 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=65378 <![CDATA[Thanksgiving]]>
This past Sunday was Thanksgiving weekend and pastor Ernest shared about the importance of thanksgiving.
Leviticus 22:9, Psalm 95:2, 100:4, 92:1, Ephesians 5:20, Philippians 4:6, 1 Thessalonians 5:18, 2 Timothy 3:2, Hebrews 13:15 and Psalm 107:1-2, 21-22, 31-32 all speak about thanksgiving in the scriptures.
The Power of Thanksgiving:
1. Thanksgiving is Biblical
2. Thanksgiving honors God
3. Thanksgiving nurtures a positive lifestyle
4. Thanksgiving invites God’s blessings and favor
5. Thanksgiving invites the presence and power of God
Practical Application
1. Take some and reflect on all the things in your life that you are thankful for.
2. Do you have a lot to be thankful for? How has thankfulness affected your life?
3. It is important for us to be thankful. The scriptures are very clear on this. Do you find it easy to be thankful?
4. What are some hindrances to you being thankful?
5. What are some practical ways that you can grow in thankfulness this week?
May we all endeavor to be always thankful for the love of God that He showed us and continues to show us daily in His son, Jesus Christ. Amen!
]]> Mon, 28 Nov 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=65164 <![CDATA[The Necessity of Divine Encounters]]>
This past Sunday we heard from Pat Bopp on the topic of “The Necessity of Divine Encounters”.
There at 3 cautions with Divine Encounters:
1. Divine Encounters cannot become the measuring stick of spirituality. (2 Corinthians 12:1-6)
2. Divine Encounters cannot become the exclusive focus of our pursuit of God. (1 Corinthians 7:29-31; 1 Cor. 2:12)
3. We are not called, per se, to duplicate other people’s divine encounters with God.
The Purposes of Divine Encounters:
1. Divine Encounters are a pathway to divine destiny.
2. The elements of Divine Encounters often mirror the dynamic of the call itself. (Isaiah 6:2-7)
3. Divine Encounters are designed to be transformational. (2 Cor. 3:18)
Appropriating Divine Encounters:
1. Consecrate yourself to God and engage in holy living.
2. Pay close attention to daily encounters with God.
3. Consider the normative nature of divine encounters in the New Testament Church.
4. Discover God’s rhythms – both natural and spiritual – for your life and stay in them – including the Sabbath.
5. Ask, seek and knock until you encounter God – Go where God is moving by His Spirit; ask for impartational prayer.
Practical Application
1. God wants to have Divine Encounters with us! What have been some encounters that have blessed you the most?
2. How do you fine yourself different after Divine Encounters with God?
3. Do you fine it easy to fall into the 3 “caution” areas that Pat spoke about?
4. What are you doing on a daily level that appropriate Divine Encounters?
]]> Wed, 23 Nov 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=65040 <![CDATA[Discerning of Spirits]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of “Discerning of Spirits”.
1 Corinthians 13:9-10 speaks to us about the gist of discerning of spirits.
Different kinds of spirits:
1. Spirit of deception
2. Spirit of sickness
3. Spirit of lying
4. Spirit of divination
5. Spirit of opposition
Ephesians 6:12, 2 Corinthians 10:4, 1 Peter 5:8, Isaiah 54:17, Isaiah 59:19 and Numbers 23:23 tells us how we are to deal with the different spirits.
Practical Application
1. Do you believe that the “Discerning of Spirits” is still applicable for today?
2. How can our lives be different if we are aware of the spiritual realm and discern spirits?
3. The scriptures are very clear that we have the power through Jesus Christ to fight and dispel all “evil spirits”. Does this encourage you to take a more aggressive approach to the matter?
]]> Wed, 16 Nov 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=64802 <![CDATA[Navigating Conflict]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of “Navigating Conflict”.
Effects of Unresolved Conflict:
1. Stress
2. Distance in the relationship
3. Depression
4. Pre-occupied thought life
5. Hurt/grief
6. Anger
7. Bitterness (Hebrews 12:14-15)
The way of LOVE:
L - Learn God’s Perspective
1. Clarify the issue specifically. What is God asking you to do? (John 8:32, Psalm 51:6)
2. Allow for self-examination. Do you contribute to the problem in any way? (Matthew 7:1-5, Romans 12:1-2, James 1:5)
3. Overlook the offense if you can. Can you healthily absorb the loss? Don’t bring it up if it doesn’t affect the relationship. (1 Peter 4:8, Proverbs 10:12, 19:11, 17:14)
O - Outline the Issue
4. If you can’t overlook it, set an appropriate time and place to discuss the issue. (Ecclesiastes 3:7, Matthew 5:24)
5. Stick to this issue. Don’t bleed into other issues. (Matthew 18:15)
6. Use statements like, “I would like...” or “when you do ‘A’ I feel ‘B’...” (Ephesians 4:25, Philippians 4:6)
V - Validate the Other
7. Avoid accusing language (“You make me...” or “You always...” or “You never...”), name calling, verbal abuse. Control your tongue. (James 3:5-6, Galatians 5:20, Proverbs 17:9, Ephesians 4:29, Proverbs 15:18, 29:11)
8. Listen attentively until you understand the other person. (James 1:19-20)
9. Repeat back what you heard them say. (Proverbs 18:13)
10. Affirm and impart worth to the other both verbally and non-verbally. (Philippians 2:4)
E - Engage in Change
11. Brainstorm possible positive solutions. (Proverbs 11:14)
12. Set proper boundaries as needed. (Titus 3:10, Matthew 18:15-17)
13. Evaluate the process. (1 Thessalonians 5:21)
14. Try a new solution if last one did not work. (Matthew 18:15-17)
15. Seek mediation if you can’t work it out between the two of you. (Matthew 18:15-17)
Practical Application
1. Unresolved conflict has negative effects on us. What have been some effects that you have experienced in your life?
2. Would you say that those effects were worth the trouble in the end?
3. The principles laid out in LOVE above shows us how to handle and deal with conflict. Does it seem like something that you could use?
4. What effect would this process have on conflict in our lives?
5. How would we benefit from utilizing this process of “LOVE”?
What is forgiveness? “When we strive against all thoughts of revenge; when we will not do our enemies mischief, but wish them well, grieve at their calamities, pray for them, seek reconciliation with them, and show ourselves ready on all occasions o relieve them”. (Thomas Watson, Body of Divinity)
]]> Wed, 9 Nov 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=64585 <![CDATA[Relationships in Forgiveness]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Dale introduced the aspect of forgiveness in healthy relationships in “relationships in forgiveness”
Human relationships move from: Simplicity-Complexity-Conflict-Confrontation-Escalation-Greater Complexity.
God’s plan is: Simplicity-Complexity-Conflict-Resolution-Forgiveness-Restoration.
We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies. (Martin Luther King, Jr.)
In Matthew 18:21-35 Jesus tells us the standard for forgiveness.
When Do I Forgive Others?
1. Resist thoughts of revenge
2. Do them no harm
3. Wish well to them
4. Grieve at their calamities
5. Pray for them
6. Seek reconciliation with them
7. Be always willing to come to their relief
What Forgiveness is not:
1. Not the absence of anger or hurt
2. Not the absence of serious consequences
3. Not the absence of responsibility
How Do I Forgive?
1. Recognize, receive and embrace God’s forgiveness
2. Must be postured for forgiveness (Colossians 3:12-15, Ephesians 4:32)
3. Be empowered by God through surrender (Ephesians 4:29-31)
4. Trust God (1 Peter 2:21-23)
Practical Application
1. God wants us to forgive. Has there been a time in your life where this seemed like it was an impossible mountain for you?
2. How does unforgiveness affect relationships?
3. In Matthew 18:21-35 Jesus tells us about forgiveness and shows us what will happen to those that refuse to forgive. Spend some time on this chapter in Matthew and ask God to speak to you regarding His Word.
4. It is clear that we can only truly forgive someone with God’s help. What are some practical ways that we can grow in forgiveness and in turn grow in our relationships?
What is forgiveness? “When we strive against all thoughts of revenge; when we will not do our enemies mischief, but wish them well, grieve at their calamities, pray for them, seek reconciliation with them, and show ourselves ready on all occasions o relieve them”. (Thomas Watson, Body of Divinity)
]]> Tue, 1 Nov 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=64318 <![CDATA[From Conflict to Peace]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on Relationships with the topic of “From Conflict to Peace”.
Healthy Building Blocks:
1. Understanding God’s design for relationship
2. Love
3. Communication
4. Conflict Resolution (Matthew 5:9)
Conflict in Scriptures: Husband and wife, Family, Sibling, Parent and child, Employer, Church, Community, Doctrine, Government, National and Enemies.
Conflict can be defined as “differing cherished values”.
Causes of Conflict:
1. Expectations
2. Personality Differences
3. Definition of Terms
4. Communication Styles
5. Time Pressure
6. Gender Differences
7. Biblical Ethics
8. Lack of Resources
9. Sin
10. Vision
11. Strategy
12. Satan
Goals of Conflict:
1. Glorify God
2. Serve Others
3. Grow
Conflict Resolution Styles: Competition, Co-Existence, Avoidance, Compromise, Capitulation, Accommodation and Collaboration.
Practical Application
1. Conflict is all around us. How often do you find yourself in conflict?
2. The Scriptures are full of conflict. Does this surprise you? How does this help you deal with conflict in your own life?
3. In regards to the 12 causes of conflict listed above, do you find yourself more prone to one or two? Which ones and why?
4. Is it easy for you to glorify God when you are in conflict? Is it easy to serve others? Do you feel yourself growing during conflict? How can we make sure that these things happen during conflict or are a result from conflict?
5. What are some practical ways that you can go from conflict to peace this week?
Matthew 5:9 says, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God”. May we all strive to be peacemakers in everything that we do.
]]> Wed, 26 Oct 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=64095 <![CDATA[The Building Blocks of Healthy Relationships]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on Relationships with the topic of “The Building Blocks of Healthy Relationships.”
What are the building blocks?
1. Love
2. Communication
Communication is transferring information from non-verbal, written, pictures, gestures, music, actions, gifts, touch, eye contact, and any method that conveys the message. Effective communication is the process where a message is received and understood by the receiver in a manner that the sender intended it to be.
Pastor Ernest’s definition of communication:
1. What I say
2. My feelings attached to what I want to say
3. What I meant by what I said
4. What you heard me say
5. How you think I feel about what I say
6. What you think I meant by what I said
7. What you say in response to what I said
8. How I feel about how I think you feel about what I said
9. What I think you meant by what you said
Communication Scriptures: Proverbs 18:21, James 1:26, Psalm 19:14, Proverbs 13:3, 21:23, 15:4, 10:11, 10:20-21, 25:11, 15:7, 24:26, Ecclesiastes 10:12-13, Ephesians 4:25, 4:29, Philippians 2:14, Ephesians 4:15, Ecclesiastes 9:17, 1 Thessalonians 5:11, Colossians 3:17, Proverbs 10:32, Colossians 4:6, Proverbs 15:2, 17:27, 12:22, James 3:5-10, Proverbs 17:14, Psalm 141:3, Proverbs 4:24, Psalm 17:3, Proverbs 10:19, 12:18, 12:13-14, 17:20, 18:7, 29:11, 29:20, 15:28, 16:23, 15:1, 18:13, 1 Corinthians 4:12-13, James 1:19, Matthew 12:34-37.
Scriptural Principles about Communication:
1. Speak truth
2. Speak in love
3. Listen more – speak less
Barriers to Healthy Relationships:
1. Lies
2. Not listening
3. Lack of time
4. Anger / Impatience
5. Lack of care / Love
6. Selfishness
7. Pride
8. Wanting to Win / Be right
9. Not understanding personality / Language of the other
Practical Application
1. Good relationship is a lot of hard work! Is it worth it? What has your life experiences taught you regarding this?
2. Do you agree with Pastor Ernest’s definition of communication? What would you add or take away?
3. The scriptures have a lot to say about communication. Philippians 2:14 tell us to do all things without complaining and disputing. How are you doing?
4. Listen more – speak less. Is this difficult for you to do? Why?
5. Which one of the barriers to healthy relationship do you find yourself struggling with the most?
6. What are some practical ways that you could grow in healthy relationships this week?
Having healthy relationships really do require us to a lot of work. They do not just come naturally. But even though it requires a lot of us it is good to remember that it is possible and it is so worth the work that goes into them. May we all strive to grow in healthy relationships and to seek to put aside all that would hinder that.
]]> Wed, 19 Oct 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=63829 <![CDATA[The Building Blocks of Relationships - Parts 1&2]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on Relationships with the topic of “The Building Blocks of Relationships.”
What is God’s purpose for relationships?
1. Companionship
2. Witness
3. Encouragement
4. Growth/Productivity
5. Protection
What builds healthy relationships?
1. Understanding God’s design for relationships
2. Love (John 13:34-35, Romans 12:10, Ephesians 4:1-3, Colossians 3:12-14, I Thessalonians 4:9, 1 Corinthians 16:14, 2 Peter 1:7-9, 1 John 3: 11-15, 18, 1 John 3:23, 1 John 4:7, 11-12, 1 John 420-21)
a. Selfless
b. Pursues
c. Kindness
d. Acceptance (Romans 15:7)
3. Forgiveness (Matthew 6:14, Luke 6:37, Ephesians 4:32, Colossians 3:13, Matthew 18:15-17, 21-22)
Practical Application
1. It is obvious that relationships take a bit of work for them to be good. What are some of the things that you have done in your life to build better relationships?
2. In regards to Love, how do you think the lack of this affects relationships? What are some of the affects of not having love in relationships?
3. How often do you find yourself exercising forgiveness in your relationships? How important is this aspect of relationships?
4. Can you think of some more building blocks for a healthy relationship?
5. What are some practical ways that you can better the relationships that you are currently in?
It is very easy for us to take relationships for granted at times. We easily forget the great value that they bring to our lives and to the lives of others. But God made relationships for us to enjoy and to reflect His glory though it. May all endeavor to grow in the relationships that we are in.
]]> Wed, 12 Oct 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=63601 <![CDATA[Why Relationships? Part 2]]>
This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on the topic of “Why Relationships?”
So why relationships?
1. Companionship (Ecclesiastes 4:8-11)
2. Encouragement (1 Corinthians 12:25, 2 Corinthians 1:4)
3. Witness (John 17:20-23)
4. Growth (Proverbs 27:17, James 5:16, 1 Corinthians 12:12-19, 26, Ephesians 4:16, 1 Corinthians 14:26, Hebrews 11:40)
5. Protection (Ecclesiastes 4:12, Hebrews 10:25-26, 3:12-15
Practical Application
1. What have been some of the most meaningful relationships that you have had in your life? How are you a different person because of them?
2. Do you think that relationship in general has had a positive or negative affect on your life? Why?
3. Pastor Ernest lists five benefits for having relationships. Can you think of any more?
4. What are some practical ways that you can grow in the relationships that you have right now?
It is very easy for us to take relationships for granted at times. We easily forget the great value that they bring to our lives and to the lives of others. But God made relationships for us to enjoy and to reflect His glory though it. May all endeavor to grow in the relationships that we are in.
]]> Tue, 27 Sep 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=63062 <![CDATA[Why Relationships?]]>
This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest on the topic of “Why Relationships?”
Psalm 68:5-6, Ecclesiastes 4:8-11, and John 17:20-23 gives us a picture of relationships and part of the dynamic that goes into it.
So why do we need relationships then?
1. Companionship
2. Reflects the God head
Practical Application
1. What have been some of the most meaningful relationships that you have had in your life? How are you a different person because of them?
2. Do you think that relationship in general has had a positive or negative affect on your life? Why?
3. Pastor Ernest lists two benefits for having relationships. Can you think of any more?
4. What are some practical ways that you can grow in the relationships that you have right now?
It is very easy for us to take relationships for granted at times. We easily forget the great value that they bring to our lives and to the lives of others. But God made relationships for us to enjoy and to reflect His glory though it. May all endeavor to grow in the relationships that we are in.
]]> Wed, 21 Sep 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=62851 <![CDATA[Get Out of the Boat]]>
This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest on the topic of “Get Out of the Boat”.
Matthew 14:22-33 tells us the story of where Peter walks on the water.
Getting Out of the Boat:
1. Safety and security in the boat
2. There’s danger outside the boat
a. Failure
b. Fear
3. There’s danger in the boat
4. The miraculous is outside the boat (Luke 12:32, John 14:12)
5. Getting out of the boat involves trust
Practical Application:
1. Can you think back to a time when you got out of the boat in a certain area of your life? What was that experience like?
2. Which one of the 5 points above kept you inside the boat?
3. Point three, “There’s danger in the boat”, is not something that we normally think about. We usually only see the danger outside and use that as an excuse to not leave the boat. Are you able to see the danger that is in your boat?
4. What are some practical ways that you can grow in trusting the Lord more?
God asks all of us to get out of our boats at some point or other. We need to be able to trust Him to do this. May we all grow in trusting God more and in being able to see what it is that the Lord desires us to do.
]]> Wed, 7 Sep 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=62299 <![CDATA[Rebuild & Restore]]> This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest on the topic of “Rebuild & Restore”.
He shared with us about the story of
Nehemiah and some of the principles about his life.
Nehemiah 1:1-6, 2:1-6, 2:18-18 gives us the initial snapshot of what happened in the life of Nehemiah.
From this we see 5 principles of Nehemiah’s life:
1. Care about the condition of others
2. Do something about it
3. Asses the damage
4. Pray for God’s favor
5. Invite them to participate
Practical Application:
1. It seems to be counter intuitive to care about the conditions of others at times.
It definitely is a conscious decision that we all have to make to do. Do you find
it a struggle to care about the conditions of other?
2. Alongside the 1st question, do you know about the conditions of others?
What kind of effort do you make to know people and what happens in their lives?
3. The knowing can sometimes be the easy part compared to the doing part.
When was the last time you did something about the condition of someone else?
4. We really need God’s favor in order for us to be effective in helping people.
We need to spend time with God in prayer so that He will show us favor and give
us strength. Take some time this week to seek God and to ask Him to show you
how you can be like Nehemiah to those around you.
5. What are some practical ways that you can practice these 5 Nehemiah principles?
It is a true fact that everyone needs help at some or other time in their lives. We all do.
It is our responsibility as Christians to know what is going on in the lives of those
around us so that we can be a helping hand and a faithful friend in times of need.
May we all seek to grow in this area as we continue to realize that we need to give
ourselves away on a daily basis.
]]> Wed, 24 Aug 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=61763 <![CDATA[Three Kinds of Pain]]> This past Sunday we heard from Pat Bopp on the topic of “Three Kinds of Pain”.

Revelation 21:1-4 speaks to us about the new heaven and the new earth. It tells us that there will no longer be any pain.

Three kinds of pain:
1. Truth based pain
a. Truth based pain, or soul/spirit hurts or wounds are real. It is not wrong to admit that you
have been hurt; not is it wrong to acknowledge that you have been wounded by something.
b. When you hurt three things need to be done. First, you must acknowledge that a wounding
has taken place. Second, you must move in faith by believing and declaring that God will make
good come of it. Lastly, you must ask God to heal you.
c. The antidote to soul/spirit hurts or wounds is a direct touch of healing from the Lord.
2. Lie based pain
a. Wrong beliefs about ourselves (Numbers 13:32-33)
b. The Holy Spirit must speak His truth directly into a past experience that resulted in the embracing of wrong beliefs about ourselves. When the Holy Spirit speaks, His reality replaces the lie based thinking that we have accepted as true, and we are healed.
3. Sin based pain
a. This is pain that is the direct result of sins we have committed.
b. We must understand that sin and sin-based pain are catalytic.
c. The only solution to sin-based pain is confession, repentance, and renunciation of the sin behavior (1 John 1:9).

Personal Application
1. One thing that we all share is that we have all felt pain in some way or other. What affect has
the experiences of pain had on your life?
2. Did these experiences drive you to make positive or negative decisions?
3. As you look at the three types of pain, which one do you find yourself most susceptible to?
4. Do you currently have pain in your life? What are you doing about that pain?
5. What are some practical ways that you can grow in living life “pain free”?

It is possible to be pain free! We can live in freedom. And the best part of it is that God wants
to help us get free. He wants us to come to Him and have Him do a work in us. Ultimately, it is
only through His goodness and mercy that it is even possible for us to be set free.
]]> Wed, 17 Aug 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=61160 <![CDATA[Thriving in The Seasons of Life]]> This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Wayne Wilson on the topic of “Thriving in The Seasons of Life”.
He shared with us three secrets to thriving in life through looking at the life of Noah.
The secret to Noah’s life is that he walked with God.
God does 4 things for His partners:
1. God stick with His walking partners (Isaiah 43:2)
2. God shares with His walking partners (Genesis 6:13-15)
3. God protects His walking partners (2 Chronicles 16:9)
4. God provides for His walking partners (Psalm 111:5, Micah 6:8)
The secret of Noah’s life is that he walked with God.
1. Noah’s walk was an obedient walk (Genesis 6:13-14, 22, 7:1-5, 8:15-18)
2. Noah’s walk was a faith filled walk (Hebrews 11:7)
3. Noah’s walk was a properly prioritized walk (Genesis 8:20-21)
Personal Application
1.It is a great encouragement to know that God sticks with His partners.
Can you think back in your life to when
you were first aware of this truth?
2. How aware were you at that time of the activity of God in your life?
3. Do you feel that as the years has gone by that this activity has increased or decreased?
What is the reason for
this?
4. The secret of Noah’s life can also be the secret of our lives.
Which one of the three characteristics of his life
seems most difficult for you to do?
5. What are some practical ways that you can grow in these
three areas on a daily basis?
Paul wraps us this idea of thriving in the seasons of life in Philippians 4:11-12
when he says that he has learned to be
content whatever the circumstances. In verse 13 he gives the reason for this,
“I can do all things through Him who gives
me strength”.
]]> Wed, 10 Aug 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=60901 <![CDATA[Temptation Anatomy 101]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest spoke about Temptation in his sermon, “Temptation Anatomy 101”.

Were Does Temptation Come From? (James 1:12-15, 1 John 2:15-17)
1. Desire
2. Devil (Luke 4:1-13, 1 Peter 5:8, 1 Thessalonians 3:5, Proverbs 1:10, James 4:7, 1 Peter 5:9)
3. Deception (2 Corinthians 11:3)
4. Disobedience (1 Corinthians 10:13, 2 Peter 2:9, 1 John 4:4, Revelation 12:11)
5. Death (Hebrews 4:14-16, Hebrews 2:18)
6. Deadened Conscience (1 Timothy 4:2)
7. Demonic (2 Timothy 2:24-26)

Ways To Avoid Temptation
1. Scripture
2. Voice of the Spirit
3. Worship
4. Fasting
5. Prayer
6. Tongues
7. Cross centered self-denial
8. Boundaries
9. Accountability
10. Flee
11. Renew your mind
12. Resist
13. Put on spiritual armor (Ephesians 6:11-18)
14. Delighting in Christ


Personal Application

1. As you look at the different places that temptation comes from, is there a specific area that you feel you are
more vulnerable to?
2. How do you normally fight temptation?
3. Think back over your life and try and remember at least 5 different times that you were victorious in overcoming
temptation. How did you do it?
4. What is the easiest way for you to avoid temptation?
5. Are there any of the ways to avoid temptation that you have not yet tried? Perhaps you could take some time
this week and “practice” them.
6. What are some practical ways that you can grow in avoiding temptation?

James 1:12-15 tells that “Blessed is the man that endures temptation”. How true are these words! God wants us to not
only stand firm in the moment when temptation comes but He wants us to live victorious lives. And we can live
victoriously everyday if we keep our eyes on Jesus, the author of life.
]]> Wed, 3 Aug 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=60683 <![CDATA[The Spirit of Transformation, Part 2]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with the topic of “The Spirit of Transformation, Part 2”. He focused on the way
out of sin (Galatians 5:16).

John 16:13-14 talks about how we walk in the Spirit.

How Do I walk In The Spirit?
1. Love for Jesus (Hebrews 12:1-3, Colossians 3:1-3, 2 Corinthians 10:3-6)
2. Conviction of sin (John 16:5-11)
3. Confession of sin (1 John 1:8-9, Psalm 32:1-5)
4. Avoid sin through accountability (Psalm 27:6, Galatians 2:11-14)
5. Redemption from sin (Romans 8:9-13)

The Holy Spirit Helps Us:
1. Love Jesus and loathe sin
2. Be convicted of sin
3. Confess sin
4. Avoid sin through accountability and boundaries
5. Repent from sin


Personal Application
1. What does your “Spirit Walk” look like? Since you became a Christian, how has it changed?
2. Which one of the 5 points (How Do I Walk In The Spirit?) is most natural for you? Which one do you struggle
with the most?
3. In regards to how the Holy Spirit helps us, for which one are you most grateful for? Which area in your life do
you feel have you experienced the most victory in?
4. In which area do you feel you need some help?
5. What are some practical ways that you can grow in to better walk in the Spirit?

We were created to live life walking with the Holy Spirit. If we want to get out of sin or even stay out of sin, it will be accomplished with the help of the Holy Spirit. May we all realize this afresh everyday and truly appreciate the Holy Spirit’s involvement in our lives.]]> Wed, 27 Jul 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=60392 <![CDATA[The Spirit of Transformation]]> This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest on the topic of “The Spirit of Transformation”.

Galatians 5:16-26, Romans 8:29, and 2 Corinthians 3:18 speak about the Spirit of Transformation. Part of transformation is the process of sanctification.
1. Positional Sanctification (1 Corinthians 6:11)
2. Experiential Sanctification
3. Future Sanctification (1 Thessalonians 5:23)

From all this we see that there is a war on sin (Romans 7:15-23), including sins of attitude (pride, fear, unbelief, critical attitude, unforgiveness, anger, lack of love and care for others).

The works of sin are: (Galatians 5:19-21)
1. Sexual Sins (1 Thessalonians 4:3)
2. Worship Sins
a. Self (Exodus 20:3)
b. Materialism
c. Other Worship
d. Sorcery
3. Relationship Sins (Matthew 5:21-22)
4. Self-Control Sins (Galatians 2:21, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Ephesians 5:3-7, Colossians 3:3-10)

Philippians 1:6 and 2 Peter 1:10-11 give us warnings about sin. Galatians 5:24 shows us the way out.

Personal Application
1. As you look back at your Christian walk, how have you changed as a person? How are you different now than when you first gave your life to Jesus?
2. Do you find it easy to “change”? Part of the process of sanctification is that we are reminded daily of the sin nature that is at work within us. Is it easy for you to deal with whatever comes up?
3. How do you deal with it? How do you change?
4. The sins of attitudes are at times the hardest ones to break and overcome. What have been some ways that allowed you to experience victory in this area?

This process of transformation and sanctification in our lives is the means that God uses to make us more like Him. It helps us to realize just how much we need God and of the lengths that He will go to for us. It is a symbol of His love for us.
]]> Thu, 21 Jul 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=60138 <![CDATA[The Powerful Purple Prophetic P’s of a Profitable, Proficient Phenomen]]>

This past Sunday we heard from our Congregational Care Pastor Dale Hewitt on the topic of “The Powerful Purple Prophetic P’s of a Profitable, Proficient Phenomenal Life”. Pastor Dale shared with us about Purpose, Principles and Passion.

Purpose (Colossians 1:16, Ephesians 1; 3-12, 1 Peter 4:11, Psalm 1:1-3)

Principles (Psalm 119:105-106)

Passion (Deuteronomy 30:6)

These three things are sustained with happiness.

The 4 Principles of Happiness:

1. Happiness is possible

2. Real happiness is fundamental and eternal

3. Happiness is never found in our circumstances

4. God designed us to pursue happiness.

Personal Application

1. Do you experience a general sense of purpose in your life? Have you always felt like you had purpose?

2.In order for us to live life well we need to live it by principles. We know that those principles are found in the Word of God. Do you find it easy to follow said principles? What are some struggles you find with it?

3.Deuteronomy 30:6 tells us to love the Lord our God with all our heart and with all our soul. This equates to passion. Do you find it easy to have passion for the things in your life?

4. How does your personal happiness affect your daily life and walk with the Lord?

5. What is the difference between superficial happiness and what Pastor Dale described as “real happiness”?

6. How can you grow in giving more of your life to God and finding your true fulfillment in Him?

All of us are made with a purpose, and to live out a purpose. We are to do this based on the principles of God and with a passion that rightly reflects our relationship with God. May we all strive to live life well and to properly reflect God in all that we do.

]]> Wed, 13 Jul 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=59888 <![CDATA[ The Spirit of Witness]]> This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest on the topic of “The Spirit of Witness”.

In Acts 1:8 we see that we are to be equipped with power when the Spirit comes upon us to be His witnesses. Acts 2:42-47 shows us the outcome of this empowering by the Holy Spirit.
The Father’s heart is for all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth (1 Timothy 2:4-6). Matthew 22:9, 28:19 and 2 Corinthians 5:19 further confirm for us the Father’s heart.
The Father’s Heart:
1. The Father loves sinners
2. We are his ambassadors

Personal Application
1. From scripture it is very clear that God desires for all to be saved (1Timothy 2:4-6). How did you come to know the Lord?
2. More than likely, someone shared with you about God and His love for us. They were His witness in your life. Have you ever had the opportunity to be a witness to someone else? What was that experience like?
3. As you think about the Father’s heart, what comes to mind? Are you struck by the simple desire to reconcile all to Him? Are you aware of the deep love that motivates the two listed points?
4. What are some ways that you can grow in becoming a bolder witness for God?

God loves us all! He wants us all to come to knowledge of Him and to enter into a living relationship with Him. But in order for us to believe, someone needs to share the Word with us. And in order for that to happen someone needs to be a bold witness and share the good news. May we all strive to be bolder witness for God!
]]> Wed, 6 Jul 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=59647 <![CDATA[The Spirit of the Gifts]]> This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest on the topic of “The Spirit of the Gifts”.
Acts 2:1-4, 1 Corinthians 14:1-5, 1 Corinthians 14:13-19, 1 Corinthians 14:39-40 and 1 Corinthians 12:7-11 speak about spiritual gifts and they encourage us to eagerly desire to have them.
The Spiritual Gifts are: Word of wisdom, Word of knowledge, Healings, Faith, Miracles, Prophecy, Discerning of spirits, Tongues, and Interpretation of tongues.
Objections to Tongues
1. It’s not for today (1 Corinthians 13:8-10)
2. It’s not for me (1 Corinthians 12:29-31, 1 Corinthians 14:5)
3. It’s weird
4. It’s for the immature (1 Corinthians 14:18)
5. It’s not real

Different uses of tongues
1. Praise (1 Corinthians 14:15, Colossians 3:16)
2. Prophecy (1 Corinthians 14:5
3. Prayer
a. Strengthens your faith (Jude 20, 1 Corinthians 14:4)
b. Brings things to light (1 Corinthians 14:2)
c. Spirit prays through us (Romans 8:26-27)
d. Purifies us
e. Releases a spiritual dynamic
f. Creates dependency
g. Humbles your pride
h. Aids in temptation (Ephesians 6:18)
i. Increases passion (1 Corinthians 14:39-40)

Personal Application
1. How do you feel in regards to the gift of tongues? Have you had good or bad experiences in regards to it?
2. From all the spiritual gifts listed above, which one has most impacted you life? In what way?
3. The 5 objections listed above is not a concise list. Do you have any other objections that could be added to it?
4. Do you personally identify to any of the objections listed above? How do you reconcile your objections with the scriptures provided?
5. Of the 3 different uses for tongues, which one do you find yourself most utilizing
6. What are some ways that you can grow in the other uses of tongues?

The use of Tongues does not have to be a daunting or scary thought. It is in fact a gift from God used to strengthen relationship with God. We do not need to fear it or look down upon those who do use it. Instead, let us earnestly desire all the gifts as Paul encourages us to do so that we could be even more effective for God.
]]> Wed, 29 Jun 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=59467 <![CDATA[The Spirit of Fatherhood]]> This past Sunday was Father’s Day. Pastor Ernest shared with us on the spirit of fatherhood and what fathers need to be doing to help raise up their children in the Lord.
In Genesis 18:17-19, Deuteronomy 6:4-9; 11; 19-21, Psalm 78:1-7, Proverbs 4:20, Colossians 3:21 and Malachi 4:6 we read about different things that God said that would benefit children and households.
What does the Spirit of Fatherhood look like?
1. Affirmation (Luke 3:21-22, Luke 9:28-35)
2. Time together
3. Role model
4. Instruction, Direction, Leadership (Proverbs 22:15)
5. Identity
6. Consistency
7. Discipline (Hebrews 12:5-11, Proverbs 13:24)
8. Resources and provision
9. Protection and security

Personal Application
1. Do you have any good Father’s Day stories from your past? What is your most memorable one?
2. Which one of the characteristics of a Spirit of Fatherhood most notably has made an impression on your life?
3. Is there one of the characteristics that you wish you had more of growing up?
4. If you’re a father, consider how you can grow in reflecting this Spirit of fatherhood. What is one practical thing God is prompting you to step out and do?
5. If you’re not a father, how can you encourage your dad or husband or son to grow in these areas? Consider picking one of these key areas and praying for growth in this person’s life.

Father’s day is a great time of the year to take some time and remember what a good Father we have in Father God. It gives us the opportunity to remember that He is our father and that we are His children. May we all strive to emulate what we see in Father God whether we are fathers or not.
]]> Wed, 22 Jun 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=59224 <![CDATA[The Journey to Spirit Fullness: A Spirit of Joy]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his sermon series on life in the Spirit. He shared with us on having a Spirit of Joy.
Acts 2:1-28 tells us about the first outpouring of the Holy Spirit. It speaks about the joy that comes with the Holy Spirit.
Signs of the Spirit of Joy:
1. Appeared to be drunk (Acts 2:13)
2. Scripture evidence (Acts 2:25-28, Psalm 16:8-11)
The Spirit of Joy is a good thing (Isaiah 61:1-3, Romans 14:17, Galatians 5:22). From the scriptures we see that God is a God of joy (Zephaniah 3:17)
The benefits of Joy:
1. Strength (Nehemiah 8:10)
2. Joy helps us focus (Habakkuk 3:17-19, 1 Peter 1:8-9)
3. Joy has physical benefits (Proverbs 17:22)
Cultivating Joy:
1. Be in God’s presence (Philippians 3:1, 4:4, 1 Thessalonians 5:16)
2. Practice celebrating
3. Remember the good
4. Knowing God’s word (Jeremiah 15:16)
5. Seek Peace (Proverbs 12:20)
6. Humility (Isaiah 29:19)
7. Do righteously (Proverbs 21:15)
A Spirit of joy leads to a Spirit of hunger for God, fellowship, generosity, and witness (Isaiah 55:12)
Personal Application
1. Are you able to think of a time in your life where you did not have any joy? Compare that to a time when you had a lot of joy. What are some of the differences?
2. Do you think of God as joyful (Zeph 3:17)? Why should God be full of joy? How can we reflect that aspect of God’s character?
3. Which of the 3 benefits of joy is the most exciting for you? Why?
4. Is there one of the 7 ways to cultivate joy that comes most naturally for you? Why? What are some ways that you could grow in the other six?
5. What are some practical steps you can take to grow in the Holy Spirit?
Living life with a Spirit of joy is as necessary as living on oxygen. We need to have a Spirit of joy in our lives so that we can be the people that God wants us to be and that we can positively affect change in the world. May we all walk daily in a Spirit of joy.
]]> Wed, 15 Jun 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=58969 <![CDATA[The Holy Spirit and the Judgment to Come]]> This past Sunday we heard from elder Bob Goodall on the topic of “The Holy Spirit and the Judgment to Come.” He told us about the important role that the Holy Spirit plays in our lives.

There are 3 events in human history that we need to keep in front of us at all times:
1. Jesus’ death
a. My sin is that bad
b. God loves me
2. Jesus’ resurrection (John 21:1-15)
a. Our faith is based on truth
b. Jesus has the highest credibility
3. Jesus’ final judgment
a. A lifelong, committed relationship is our privilege and obligation

What Jesus said about the judgment to come:
1. I am the judge (John 5:22, Acts 10:42
2. I judge by what you do (Matthew 7:21, Matthew 28:19-20)
3. Not just don’ts, but you must bear fruit (Matthew 25:14-30, Luke 13:7-9)
4. The standard is high
5. The consequence is severe (Matthew 25:31-46)
6. The consequence is eternal

We need the Holy Spirit in order to live in a lifelong, committed relationship with Jesus.
2 Peter 1:3-11 and Philippians 2:12-13 tells us where grace comes in during this process.
Why we need the Holy Spirit?
1. To believe God and thereby obey Him (John 6:28-29, Acts 16:13-14)
2. To fear the Lord and thereby obey Him (Matthew 10:28, Psalm 2:11, Psalm 25:12-14, Psalm 31:19)
3. To love Him and thereby obey Him (John 14:23-24, John 4:32-34, 2 Samuel 23:13-16)
4. For gifts and power to be fruitful (Acts 1:4-5)
5. For character that honors God in each situation (Galatians 5:22-23)
6. For joy, energy and life to act, to persevere and to share (Acts 2:14-40)
Personal Application
1. How often do you consider the judgment to come? How does this affect you?
2. Involving the Holy Spirit is very important so as not to become overwhelmed or discouraged in regards to the future judgment. How can you “apply” the Holy Spirit in this regard?
3. Which of Jesus’ 6 teachings on judgment that Bob shared challenge you the most? Why?
4. Jesus says that He will judge by what we do. Does this convict you? If yes, what are some ways that you can “do” all that He says?
5. Which area of ministry of the Holy Spirit comes most naturally for you? Which is most difficult? Why?
6. What are some practical steps you can take to grow in the Holy Spirit?
Living life the way that God intends for us to do is often not the easiest path. Praise God that He has given us the Holy Spirit to help and guide us through life. May we never forget or neglect the amazing blessing of the Holy Spirit.
]]> Wed, 8 Jun 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=58699 <![CDATA[The Journey toward Spirit Fullness 2]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on Spirit Fullness. He shared with us on liberty and freedom and how we experience this with the Spirit’s activity in our lives.

2 Corinthians 3:17, Luke 4:16-19 and Isaiah 10:27 speak about the Lord coming and taking our burdens and yokes away from us. It speaks to us of liberty and freedom (Galatians 5:1, Romans 7:23, Romans 8:21).

Who did Jesus come to set free:
1. The poor
2. The brokenhearted
3. The captives
4. The Blind
5. The Oppressed

Jesus came to proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord.

Year of Jubilee:
1. Freedom from debt
2. Release from slavery
3. Restoration of what was lost

We are set free from:
1. Sin (John 8:34-36, Romans 7:23)
2. Satan (Matthew 12:28-29, Luke 13:16, Mark 16:17-18)
3. Hurts
4. Fears
5. Sickness

Personal Application
1. What have been ways in your life that you have experienced freedom and liberty? What were some of the benefits to your life?
2. What are some of the benefits to living a life that is “free”?
3. Is there an area of your life that you feel captive, oppressed, brokenhearted or blind? If you asked someone else that question about you, what would they answer?
4. What are some practical steps you can take to grow in freedom and liberty in those areas of your life?
5. Take some time this week and think of all the times that you have experienced freedom and liberty in your life. Write it down if you have never done so and thank God for all that He has done for you.
The amazing work that Jesus has done for us through the cross is a work that is not stagnant or old. It is a work that changes our lives and gives us the ability to be who he wants us to be. We are truly set free from the things that held us back. We are truly liberated.
]]> Wed, 1 Jun 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=58416 <![CDATA[The Journey Toward Spirit Fullness]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of Spirit Fullness. He began sharing on how our lives can be impacted by the Spirit’s activity. We also saw the impact of a lack of the Spirit’s activity in our lives.

Jesus tells us about the Holy Spirit in John 16:5-7 and Acts 1:4-8. Ezekiel 47:1-6 gives us a picture of this idea of the journey. We see this picture of going deeper and deeper into the river of God, which symbolizes the Holy Spirit. From this we see that it really is the Father’s heart for us to go deeper into the Spirit.

The deeper we go more we realize that we are adopted into the family of God (Romans 8:12-17, 2 Samuel 9:6-12). Conversely, the opposite of an adoption is the spirit of rejection.
Elements of a Spirit of Rejection:
1. Performance orientated
2. Fear of others
3. Distrustful of others
4. No vulnerability or intimacy
5. Few friends
6. Critical of others
7. Wounded by others
8. Inability to connect with others
9. Loneliness, isolation and withdrawal
10. Low self-esteem, guilt and shame

Elements of a Spirit of Adoption: (1 Corinthians 2:9-12)
1. I’m loved for who I am
2. I belong – I’m accepted
3. Ability to enter relationship without fear of hurt
4. Absence of guilt and shame
5. Vulnerability without fear of reprisal

The spirit gives us a Holy Passion: Joy, Energy, Focus, and attractiveness (Acts 4:13, Luke 11:13).

Personal Application

1. Do you remember a time when you extremely aware of the Spirit in your life? What do you think was the reason for this?
2. Do you recognize any of the elements of a spirit of rejection in your life?
3. What are some ways that we can get rid of a spirit of rejection and the elements thereof in our lives?
4. Do you recognize any of the elements of a spirit of adoption working in your life?
5. The Holy Passion that the Holy Spirit gives us empowers us to live effective lives. How can we make sure that we keep that Holy Passion?
One of the most crippling things a person can experience is a spirit of rejection. It makes life very difficult. But what a tremendous joy it is to know that the Father has provided us with the Holy Spirit and in Him the Spirit of Adoption. May always cling to that truth!
]]> Wed, 25 May 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=58186 <![CDATA[Strengthen Me One More Time]]> Pat Mahoney

This past Sunday we heard from Rev. Pat Mahoney on the topic of Strengthen Me One More Time. Rev. Pat shared with us on the life of Samson and how we can learn spiritual disciplines from his life.

Judges 13-16 tells us about the life of Samson and all of his exploits.

We see that the super human strength that he possessed was not because of his size or stature, but rather because the spirit of the Lord was upon him and worked mightily through him.

Everything amazing that Samson ever did was only because God empowered him to do it. This was because Samson was set apart at a young age to belong to God. But through a series of circumstances and decisions, Samson moved away from God.

Judges 16:20 tells us that Samson did not know that the Lord had departed from him. When this happened, Samson lost his strength and his anointing. This is another sign that his strength did not lie in his own physical ability.

Upon seeing his sin, Samson cried out to God one last time and asked that God would strengthen him just one more time. God heard his cry and in Samson’s death he killed more Philistines than he had in his entire life. God used Samson because he was humble and he knew he needed God.

Personal Application
1. Are there things that you have done in your life that you know were only possible by the grace and strength of God?
2. In the service Rev. Mahoney mentioned how God uses the common to accomplish the miraculous. Have you ever experienced this in your life?
3. One of the main reasons that the spirit of the Lord left Samson was that he succumbed to the temptations of the world. Are there any specific temptations that you are vulnerable to?
4. What are some ways that you can make sure that you won’t give in to temptation?
5. How can you keep your heart filled with the Spirit so that you can fulfill God’s purpose for your life?

It is humbling to know that in order for us to do mighty things for God, we need the Spirit of God to be upon us. We cannot do this life on our own or in our own strength. May we never forget the lessons that Samson’s life teach us.
]]> Wed, 18 May 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=57901 <![CDATA[A Mother's Love]]> Dona Wilson

This past Sunday was Mothers Day and we heard from Dona Wilson. Dona is the wife of Matt Wilson, one of the elders at Grace Church. Dona shared with us on the topic of “A Mother’s Love”.

Dona shared with us on our identity in God. We are children of God (2 Corinthians 6:18, 1 John 3:1)
Genesis 2:21-23, 27 tells us that we were created in the image of God. We see that as God created us male and female, He posses the qualities of both and therefore loves us as both a father and mother. The love He shows us through a mother’s heart is different than the love we see through a father’s heart.

Mothers are:
1. Protective (Psalm 116:8)
2. Patient (Psalm 103:8)
3. Compassionate (Psalm 103: 8)
4. Empathetic (Isaiah 49:13)
5. Comforting (Lamentations 3:22)
6. Supportive(Lamentations 3:22)
7. Attentive (Luke 12:6-7)

Personal Application
1. What are some of the fondest memories that you have about your mother?
2. How do you relate with the thought that God not only loves us as a father but also as a mother?
3. What other scriptures tell us about God’s heart for us?
4. What are some examples in your own life of how God has shown one or two of the attributes of mothers from the list above?

Knowing that God loves us as dear children is very comforting and an amazing thought. He loves us with everything that is inside of Him, just like a mother loves her children, if not even more. May we never forget that we are His children!
]]> Wed, 11 May 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=57643 <![CDATA[Waiting on God]]> Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the topic of “Waiting on God”. This serves as an intro into the week of prayer and fasting that is being held at the church this week.

The following scriptures speak to us about waiting on God (Acts 1:4-8, Psalm 27:14, Luke 21:19, James 1:4, 1 Thessalonians 1:10, James 5:7-8, Psalm 40:1, Lamentations 3:25-26, Isaiah 30:18, Isaiah 40:31).

Seeking God is a means of waiting on Him (Jeremiah 29:13, Psalm 27:4, Hebrews 11:6, Psalm 27:8, James 4:8Psalm 9:10).

Why is waiting good?
1. Builds patience
2. Builds hope
3. Builds faith
4. Builds strength and endurance
5. Gets our eyes off self onto God
6. Denies our fleshly desires and fosters spiritual hunger

Not only is fasting a way of waiting on God, but it is important (Matthew 6:16-18, Matthew 17:21).

There are three ways to fast:
1. Normal Fast – One day of the week from sundown to sundown
2. Partial Fast – Fasting only certain things (Daniel only eating vegetables)
3. Extended Fast – Fasting for multiple days (3 days, 7 days, 21 days, 40 days)

Personal Application
1. The prospect of waiting is not always a very exciting one. Can you recall a bad “waiting” experience in your life?
2. What are some of the themes that come out of the scriptures about waiting on God?
3. Why is waiting good for us and what does it do to us?
4. When it comes to waiting on God, it is easy to get discouraged or sidetracked. What are ways that you can help yourself not to get discouraged or sidetracked?
5. Can you think of different things that fasting does for us? How is it good for us?
6. What are some things that you can fast from this week?
God calls us to wait upon Him in the scriptures. This act of waiting produces a deeper level of trust and relationship with God. May we all strive to wait more upon God in our daily lives.
]]> Wed, 4 May 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=57412 <![CDATA[A Christian Response to Bin Laden’s Death]]> Pastor Ernest Custalow

It’s Monday, May 2, 2011, and the world now knows that Osama Bin Laden has been killed by an elite team of Navy Seals from the United States of America. How should we as Christians respond to his death? This question raises other questions that need to be answered first.

Where does evil come from? The Bible teaches in its very first book, Genesis, that God is holy and has not even a shadow of unrighteousness in Him. Man was created in God’s image. But the first man, Adam, disobeyed God and sinned. Since then, all mankind is born with a sinful nature. Because we have this sinful nature, we have all sinned and committed sin/evil in the sight of God. Romans 3:23 says that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.

What is the penalty for committing sin/evil? The penalty or wages (Rom. 6:23) for such sins is death and eternal separation from a loving God in a place the scriptures call hell. Isaiah 53:6 says that every one of us, like sheep, have gone astray and have turned, everyone, to his own way. All of us are guilty of sin/evil. God is a holy God who will not let sin go unpunished. Numbers 14:18 says, “The Lord is longsuffering and abundant in mercy, forgiving iniquity and transgression; but He by no means clears the guilty.” Bin Laden was a sinner just like you and me. His sins/evil is much more heinous than possibly yours or mine. But all sins separate us from God. We should all look at Bin Laden and realize not just what an evil murderer he was but that we too are evil. Jesus said in the gospel of Matthew 5:21-22 that if we were angry with our brother or call him a fool that we have murdered him in our hearts and are in danger of “hell fire.” Sin/evil in any form demands judgment. . . (Read the rest of the article)
]]> Wed, 4 May 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=57403 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]> Weekly Devotional by Wayne Wilson

It has been nearly a year since I transitioned from vocational ministry into the secular workplace. During that time, I’ve seen the attitude of military police change toward me when I’ve sought to get on to military bases. Prior to entering the secular work place they had a cautious, questioning attitude towards me. Now that is gone. When I arrive at the gate of a military base I’m invited on with few, if any, questions asked. What has made the difference? The difference is that I am currently a Record Searcher retained by the U.S. Office of Personnel Management, with the credentials to prove it. Currently, when I go on military bases and show my credentials, the authority of the U.S. government stands behind me, and I’m welcomed on to the base. Prior to my current job the only credentials I had were my own, and they did not carry any authority.

The most significant entity in the universe is the Kingdom of God, where God will rule and reign in righteousness forever. Deep within the human heart is a desire to be part of God’s eternal Kingdom. None of us deserves to be granted into God’s Kingdom, but God will grant entrance to some, while others will be denied. What is the difference? Those who are granted entrance don’t gain it by any personal merit. They gain entrance due to Jesus Christ, the Divine Son, vouching for them.

Citizens of God’s Kingdom have turned from their sins (i.e., repent) and wholeheartedly believe the good news (Mark 1:15). The good news is that Jesus Christ came to earth, lived a perfect life, and took the punishment that our sin deserved on the cross. When we place our trust in the sufficiency of Jesus’ sacrifice we are made right with God, becoming Kingdom citizens and members of God’s family. Have you committed as much as you know of yourself to as much as you know of Jesus Christ? If you have, why not thank God for His great gift? If you have not, God’s word to you is to turn from your sin (Acts 17:30) and place your complete confidence in Him.
]]> Wed, 27 Apr 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=57197 <![CDATA[It is Finished!]]> Pastor Ernest Custalow
On Resurrection Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us a messaged titled, “It is Finished!”
John 19:17-20:10 tells the story of when Jesus was on the cross until the disciples find the empty tomb. We see from this passage of scripture that it truly is finished (Luke 23:46).
The word tetelestai is used here for “it is finished.” It means it is finished, a comprehensive word, and a comfortable one. In other words, it is completely finished (Colossians 2:13-15).

What was Finished?
1. Full penalty for sin was satisfied
2. Fatal blow to Satan was struck (1 Corinthians 15:53-55)
3. Full restoration of relationship was secured
4. Future hope of life in heaven was accomplished
Jesus fulfilled a personal mission (Luke 12:50; 18:31; 22:37, John 19:28; 19:30)
God’s plan for you?
1. To enter and maintain a personal relationship with you
2. To transform you into the image of Jesus
3. To extend Kingdom realities in your sphere of influence
Finishing well: (2 Timothy 4:6-8, Acts 26:19-20, 1 Corinthians 9:24-27)
1. Focus
2. Discipline
3. Sacrifice
Personal Application
1. Easter Sunday is a time of celebration and excitement. What has Easter Sunday meant for you in your life?
2. The story of Jesus on the cross is a very surreal one. It is filled with strong emotion and immense significance. Take some time to read it again in John 19:17-20:10.
3. What does it mean for you to hear that it is finished?
4. Are you able to point to things in your life that have been overcome by the victory of Jesus on the cross? Spend some time this next week and remember what He has done in your life.
5. Pastor Ernest listed three things in regard to God’s plan for your life. Are you able to see those things at work in your life presently? Which ones do you struggle with?
When Jesus said, “It is finished”, the hope of mankind was secured in Him for all time. May we never lose sight of the immense sacrifice that Jesus paid for us to restore us to himself!
]]> Wed, 27 Apr 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=57196 <![CDATA[The Power of the Cross]]> Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us on the Power of the Cross and its power in our lives.
When we look at Scripture, we see the cross reflected in the Old Testament and specifically described in the New Testament (Romans 3:23-26, Hebrews 9:11-15).
In the Old Testament we see it reflected in two ways:
1. The Passover
2. The Tabernacle of Moses
Pastor Ernest highlighted three ways in which the cross has power:
1. The power of the cross for salvation (Hebrews 9:22)
a. Judgment (Isaiah 53:10, 12)
b. Merciful Love (1 John 2:1-2, 1 John 4:10, 1 John 3:1)
2. The power of the cross for transformation (Romans 7:15-25, Hebrews 2:17-18)
3. The power of the cross for healing (Isaiah 53:4-6, Matthew 8:16-17)
Personal Application
1. Think of a time when you offended or wronged someone else. How did that affect your relationship with that person?
2. We see in Romans 3:23-26 very clearly that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. As you read the whole portion, how does it comfort you know knowing what Jesus did on the cross?
3. Based on the scriptures above, the cross of Jesus accomplished many of things. What stands out to you about the importance of the cross?
4. Take some time this week to reflect on the cross of Jesus Christ. If it is not a very important thing in your mind, use this time to meditate on the scriptures above and think about what the cross accomplished for all of us.
5. Most people understand the power of the cross for salvation. How does the power of the cross for transformation and healing “play itself out” in out in our lives? Have you experienced the cross this way?

Romans 3:23 says it very clearly, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Truly we would be completely lost were it not for the costly sacrifice of Jesus for us on the cross that day on Calvary. May we never forget that and the hold of sin that He broke that day over our lives!
]]> Wed, 27 Apr 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=57195 <![CDATA[An Anchor for All Times and All People]]> Julius Esunge

This past Sunday we heard from Dr. Julius Esunge. Julius is a member of Grace, a mathematics professor at the University of Mary Washington, and helped found Hope Outreach International Ministries in Cameroon.

Julies shared with us on the topic of, “An Anchor for All Times and All People”. We heard of how we need to boast about nothing else except the cross of Jesus Christ and Him crucified.

In this life people brag about many things (cars, house, education, wealth, health, spouse, kids). Even though these things in and of themselves are not bad, we need to boast in the Lord Jesus Christ and the cross.

This is our anchor! An anchor is a person or thing that can be relied on for support, stability, or security; a reliable or principle support. (Galatians 6:14)

The trouble with this is that none of the above worldly things can be relied on for all times. This list does not work for all people.

Four reasons to Boast in the Cross of Jesus Christ:
1. The Cross of Jesus is a meeting place between sinful man and Holy God. The Cross introduces a new law. (Romans 8:1-2)
2. The Cross of Jesus provides stability for the warring soul. The cross introduces a new identity. (2 Corinthians 5:17)
3. The Cross introduces a new arithmetic. Life goes from minus to plus. (John 10:10)
4. The Cross of Jesus is a place of defeat for Satan and his cohorts. The Cross introduces a new Lord. (Colossians 2:13-15)

Personal Application
1. Are you able to look back at your life and point at the “old you?” How is the “old you” different from the “new You?”
2. In Galatians 6:14 Paul speaks about only wanting to boast in the cross of Jesus. What are you inclined to boast in? How does this verse challenge you to live differently?
3. Based on the scriptures above, the cross of Jesus accomplished a lot of things. What stands out to you about the importance of the cross?
4. Take some time this week to reflect on the cross of Jesus Christ. If it is not a very important thing in your mind, use this time to meditate on the scriptures above and think about what the cross accomplished for all of us.
5. What are some ways you can practically make the cross the anchor of your life?

It is truly amazing that a perfect all powerful God chose to send His only Son to the earth to die for us and restore us to himself. This is the foundation of our understanding of scripture and our hope. May we remember daily the ultimate act of love that he showed us!
]]> Tue, 12 Apr 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=56586 <![CDATA[iHear....iLive]]> Pastor Ernest Custalow
This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest Custalow regarding hearing the voice of God. He shared with us about the different ways that God speaks to us as well as what it is that God speaks to us about.

Pastor Ernest shared these scriptures as they relate to hearing the voice of God: Deuteronomy 5:23-31, Isaiah 55:3a, Numbers 11:29, Deuteronomy 8:3, John 10:27, and Revelation 21:3.

How Does God Speak To Us? (Job 33:14)
1. Bible
2. Revelation
3. Dreams
4. Vision
5. Peace
6. Faith (Romans 10:17)
7. Circumstances (Acts 16:6-7)
8. Counsel of leaders in our lives (Acts 15)
9. Counsel of peers
10. Prophecy
11. Encounter with God
12. Angel visitation
13. Audible voice

What Does God Talk About?
1. Our Relationship (Revelation 2:2-5, Genesis 13:8-17; 28:12-15, Psalm 139:17-18; 63:3; 59:10; 23:6, Acts 18:9-10, Matthew 17:5, Mark 1:11, Song of Solomon 2:10-14, Jeremiah 29:11; 31:3, Zephaniah 3:17, 1 John 3:1, Hebrews 13:5)
2. Instruction
3. Discipline

Personal Application
1. What has been your journey in regards to hearing the voice of God? Which one of the above mentioned ways do you find yourself the strongest in?
2. As you read the scriptures above, are you encouraged to grow in hearing the voice of God? Which scripture stood out to you the most? Why?
3. Why are there so many Scriptures about God speaking to people about His relationship with them?
4. When you hear God speak to you, what is it usually about? Do you find Him talking to you about your relationship with Him, instruction, or discipline?
5. What are some more things that God talks to us about? What has been your experience in life?

It is an amazing fact that God does talk to His people. It gives us hope and direction for our lives as well as affirms His love for us. May we all endeavor to better hear the voice of God in our lives!
]]> Wed, 6 Apr 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=56358 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]> Weekly Devotional by Brandon Jones
April 6, 2011

PSALM 147:4-5
He determines the number of the stars and calls them each by name.
Great is our Lord and mighty in power; his understanding has no limit.

Sometimes I wonder how God can be mindful of me when there are so many other people for Him to be concerned about. How can He keep up? Then I am reminded of the scriptures that tell us that God has named all the stars. We don't even know how many stars there are -- scientists say billions and billions -- but God can call them all by name!

God is definitely in a different category than anyone else I know. He is mighty. Compared to us, He has no limit to His understanding or His ability.

ISAIAH 40:26
Lift your eyes and look to the heavens: Who created all these? He who brings out the starry host one by one, and calls them each by name. Because of his great power and mighty strength, not one of them is missing.

PSALM 8:3-4
When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him?

When we do consider the heavens, it can make us feel small and insignificant. But, according to God's Word -- we are not.

Why does God love you -- and the rest of humanity? The best answer we can give is because He created us. He put something of Himself into us. We are His children.

God doesn't love us because of our great achievements -- but simply because we are His.

SAY THIS: If God can remember the names of all the billions of stars, He can remember my name and address, and take care of me.

]]> Wed, 6 Apr 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=56357 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]> Weekly Devotional by Ken Stout

March 31, 2011

Hearing Pat Bopp preach this past Sunday reminded me of a message that I’d heard from him almost ten years ago while I was leading the campus ministry at Grace. We had organized a weekend conference of college students from several Grace Network churches, and Pat was preaching a message about God’s grace for the future. One of his key points I still remember even now: “Where He leads, He feeds, and where He guides, He provides.”

I’m not usually one for sing-songy sermon points, but this one has bounced around in my head for years and still pops up from time to time. What makes it so powerful is that it quickly captures this truth: when God calls you to do something in faith for Him, He will provide what you need to see it accomplished. Saints from every age will rise up and give this an “Amen!” while also reminding us that even in the midst of God’s gracious provision we may experience hardship and trials. We may need to draw on more perseverance and wisdom than we’ve ever had to before. Even so, God goes ahead of our steps and provides what is needed to fulfill our calling in Him.

This has been a powerful truth for my wife, Maria, and myself. When I heard that message, I was in the midst of my first year of raising support to cover most of my salary for doing college ministry. For all four years that I raised support God provided for all our needs. In addition, we were able to buy our first (and current) house, and complete the adoption of our son, Peter, from South Africa—which is not easy on a non-profit salary! Several years later, when we sensed the Lord leading us to adopt from China for our second child, we knew that unless God provided we couldn’t do this on our own. A few months after we shared our intention with our friends, two of them were inspired to host a fundraising dinner to help us with our upcoming expenses. Funds from that dinner, along with a few other contributions that came in later, were able to cover almost all of our adoption and travel-related expenses. Time and again, we have seen God demonstrate His faithfulness in “providing” where we sensed Him “guiding.”

Today, if you are struggling to trust in God’s provision for your life and circumstances, allow me to gently encourage you to go to the Lord again in prayer. Be honest about your anxiety and fear about the future, and ask Him to open your eyes with a fresh revelation of His faithfulness to His children. Before you step out and do anything with big, long-term consequences, be sure to seek wisdom from godly leaders and proven friends. But once you set your feet on the path that God has prepared for you, you can trust in His faithful provision as He leads you into your calling!
]]> Fri, 1 Apr 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=56136 <![CDATA[Productivity and the Word of God]]> Pat Bopp

This past Sunday we heard from Pat Bopp, recently the pastor of Raccoon Ford Christian Fellowship and currently a member of Grace Church. Pat explored the connection between Kingdom productivity and the word, or voice, of God.

The idea of divine expectation for productivity and faithfulness is resident throughout scripture. The work of God in my life is the initial phase of a delivery system of that same work in the lives of other people. In other words, what God does for me, He often wants to do through me. (2 Cor. 1:3-4)

We are to have productivity in the Word of God:
1. The Voice of God is the divine catalyst for fruitfulness and productivity (Is. 55:11)
2. The Voice of God is given to accomplish specific things (Is. 55:11)
3. The Voice of God carries with it a guarantee of success, if properly received and administrated (Is. 55:11)

In creation it is easy to see how the spoken word of God is a catalyst for productivity and divine fruitfulness. If we fail to see this:
1. We may fail to fully posture ourselves before the Lord and for that reason muss what He is saying.
2. We will probably needlessly worry and fear and are more prone to move into a sense of helplessness and hopelessness because solutions are not forthcoming.
3. There is a good chance we will engage in solutions driven by human ingenuity and natural reason.

We need to remember that the voice of God is given to accomplish specific things.


Personal Application
1. What has been your journey in regards to hearing the voice of God? How have you grown in it?
2. As you read the scriptures above, are you encouraged to grow in hearing the voice of God? Which scripture stood out to you the most? Why?
3. What are some areas in your life that you can apply Isaiah 55:11 to right now?
4. Do you tend to connect productivity with hearing the voice of God? What does that idea mean to you? How do you apply that to your life?
5. Arthur Burt says, “Faith is an act.” Try to come up with some creative ways this week as to how you can “act out” productivity and the word of God.

Knowing that the word of God has power to accomplish what it set out to do is an extremely comforting thing. May we open our hearts to hear His voice more clearly and so grow in Kingdom fruitfulness to His glory!

]]> Wed, 30 Mar 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=56077 <![CDATA[iHear: The Voice of God]]> Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest shared with us the importance of listening to the voice of God along with receiving life from God though His spoken word.

We see in the scriptures that there is a huge emphasis on hearing the voice of God and on being led by the voice of God. The scriptures tell us that “rivers of living water will flow from our hearts” (John 7:37-39), “man lives by every word that proceeds from the mouth of the Lord” (Deuteronomy 8:3), “the words I speak to you are Spirit, and they give life” (John 6:63), and “hear, and your soul shall live” (Isaiah 55:3a).

How do we navigate life?
1. Wisdom – We do not live by wisdom alone
2. Revelation – We do not live by revelation alone
3. A balance of wisdom and revelation (Matthew 13:13-15) – We live by both of these

Pastor Ernest shared with us his own journey toward the voice of God:
1. Sovereignty – It is by God’s grace that he knows the voice of God
2. Ministry (1 Cor. 14:1, 3, 5, 24-25, 31, 39) – In doing ministry he has learned to hear the voice of God
3. Generational – He received insight, direction, and an impartation from his grandfather

Personal Application
1. What has been your journey in regards to hearing the voice of God? How have you grown in it?
2. As you read the scriptures above, are you encouraged to grow in hearing the voice of God? Which scripture stood out to you the most? Why?
3. What are some areas in your life that you can apply Isaiah 55:3a to right now?
4. As you navigate life, do you find yourself relying more towards wisdom or revelation? What are some things that you can do to have a more balanced life in regards to being led by both wisdom and revelation?
5. Take some time this week to reflect on your own journey in hearing the voice of God. What are some of the lessons that you have learned? What are the things that you are working on right now and need God’s grace for? Write these down and spend some time before the Lord telling Him how grateful you are for all that he has done for you.

Being able to live our lives by the grace and direction of God is a fantastic thing. We experience true joy and peace when we rely on the Spirit of God to lead and guide us. May you become more aware of His Spirit in your life day by day.
]]> Wed, 23 Mar 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=55778 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]>
A story from the old days of Hazelwild farm…1987-89

Each foot splashed cool water on my upper calves and knees. This was a shallower portion of the creek. My foot occasionally slipped off a particularly larger rock in the middle of the creek where I made my way. I could hear the sounds of the forest and the rushing waters behind and in front of me. I was at one of my favorite parts of the creek. I had named this area Charisma Creek—because of its beauty. The creek was about as wide as a road here…occasionally as deep as my chest in the swimming holes. I could feel the coolness of the water on my skin but not too cool…it was a hot Virginia day.

I remember not too long ago when it had rained and the waters of this same creek were muddy and almost icy when I had challenged myself to cross the creek with a rope tied around my waste when the spring flood waters had come. I knew the icy bite of this creek. Then, I had only to take a few steps and I was swept away with the flood waters, the wind forced from my lungs because of how cold and rough that water was… Not today though, the waters were clear.

I was deep in the woods and had been an hour or so away from the house on my trek. I remember when a giant water moccasin about five to six feet long had swum right by my legs when I was here with a group of friends two years ago. No sign of the water moccasin. Today I was alone. Earlier, I challenged myself to see if I could jump across the full span of the creek without getting wet. Now, I wanted to come into the quiet of a beautiful spot within the forest near the creek. Here the creek had slowed to a muted murmuring and as I mounted the sandy side of the creek bank, the creek sounds became even softer. Often, I would see horses in this part of the forest and or a herd of cattle. About two hundred feet away, I could see the brilliant light of the sun hitting the grassy fields just beyond the forest. Inside the forest there was a dark beauty. There were tall trees far apart creating a canopy of shade and silence around me.

It was beautiful. Not the beauty of the Rockies, the Alps or the volcanic waterfalls and peaks of Hawaii but beautiful still—the beauty of Virginia. As I took a few more steps forward, for the first time in my life, I smelt the smell of rotting death. It was so strong and putrid that I held my breath and walked back the way I had come to breathe. I wondered what could be making such a horrible smell, seemingly coughed up from the bowels of death itself. I decided that I would breathe the air, though I half wondered if it would harm my lungs. I then began my curious search for the smell. About seventy five feet away in a small depression in the forest, where the smell was strongest, I came across a rotting carcass of a 400-500 lb bull.

I was horrified by the smell but also somewhat fascinated—death in the midst of beauty. That rotting carcass of a bull reminded me of something—the taint of sin in the beauty within ourselves and this world. I was in a beautiful place in those woods (incidentally this happened on the grounds near the barn where Grace first began to meet at Hazelwild farm around 1987-89) and God has created each one of us beautiful, fearfully fashioned after his likeness. Yet there is death that is within us according to the scriptures. That death is sin – often manifesting in our selfishness and obsession with ourselves. However, there is a deeper truth, a deeper reality. Each one of us is a masterpiece, full of adventure and discovery but within all of us there is this thing—this dead thing. When we discover it we realize just how gross it is—sin. Yet, God never designed us to carry death and sin. Rather, he designed us for beauty and life and so he wants to remove death and sin from the forests of our lives.

What sin is within you and me that the Lord is wanting to remove? The scriptures say that the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life, and furthermore if we confess our sins then God is faithful to forgive us of our sins, separating us from our sins, from death, forever. As we confess our sins and trust Jesus then there is a different smell that rises up from us—no longer the overwhelming smell of death but rather the aroma of life. 2 Corinthians 2:15 puts it this way “For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing.” What aroma is your life giving off to those around you? God’s plan is for us to carry the scent of grace—life. Take a moment and pray and see if the Lord would reveal anything within your heart to confess to Him. As you confess, know that our God forgives and causes a new aroma to arise—absolutely beautiful—as you and I were intended to be. Let us now spend a moment and thank God for his grace that takes us from death to life and finally to beauty.

]]> Fri, 18 Mar 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=55553 <![CDATA[The Grace of Giving]]> Mike Jones

This past Sunday we heard from Mike Jones, one of our elders, on the topic of “The Grace of Giving”.

2 Corinthians 8:1-7 tells us that their very act of giving was a grace from God. It was the grace of God! Luke 11:39-42 tells us that giving is an issue of the heart.
Further scriptures that Mike shared with us regarding giving are Matt. 19:16-22, Luke 19:1-9, and 1 Tim. 6:17-19. The kingdom does not come when we give money away; it comes when we give according to the heart of God. From this we see that we never look more like God than when we give (Rom. 8:32). God is a gracious giver! He has given us many good things (new life, all good things, protection, relationships, salvation, new hope, and more).
The biblical principle of giving is found in 2 Cor. 9:6-11. This diagram shows God’s circle of blessing (Ps. 1:1-3, Pr. 10:22, Ps. 112:1-3, Ps. 35:27b, 3 John 2, Job 42:12, 2 Cor. 9:11-12, Luke 6:38, Luke 12:31-34).
Three things that will keep us out of the circle of blessing:
1. Squandering our blessings
2. Greed and covetousness
3. The deceitfulness of riches
Five Steps to develop a giving heart:
1. Look at you current budget and decide to make a cut somewhere
2. Based on that cut, decide to use that money through giving monthly
3. Be diligent and put that amount aside every month
4. Ask God what He wants you to do with that monthly amount
5. Act on what God shows you to do
Personal Application

1. Do you find it natural to give gifts to people, or is it usually a struggle for you? Why?
2. From the scriptures above, what do we see regarding the “ability” to give?
3. 2 Cor. 9:6-11 shows us the biblical principle for giving. Is this something that you can easily apply to your daily life?
4. Which one of the three things that keeps us out of the circle of blessing do you struggle with most? What are some good ways to combat that?
5. In addition to what is listed above, what are some more ways that will help one to develop a giving heart?0
It is clear from the Scriptures that it is only God that makes it possible for us to be givers. May we seek to become more like Him on a daily basis by practicing this grace of giving.
]]> Wed, 16 Mar 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=55486 <![CDATA[iGive: Embracing the heart of generosity]]> Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday we heard from Pastor Ernest Custalow on the topic of iGive: Embracing a heart of generosity. Pastor Ernest shared with us from the scriptures on what it means to have a generous heart and how to give.

Pastor Ernest shared with us from Luke 11:37-42 on the topic of giving with a right heart. Other scriptures that speak about giving are John 3:16, 1 Corinthians 13:3, 1 John 3:17-18, Matthew 6:21 and 2 Corinthians 9:7.

What does biblical giving look like?
1. Tithing
a. Levitical Tithe
b. Festival Tithe
c. Poor Tithe
2. First Fruits
3. Alms
4. Offerings
a. Free will thank offerings above the tithe
i. Vow Offering
ii. Thank Offering
iii. Peace Offering
5. Gleanings
6. State

How much should I give? We need to give with the stewardship principle in mind.
Where should I give? We need to give to the local storehouse.
How should I give? We should give periodically and systematically (1 Corinthians 16:2).
What do I give? 1. Your Income 2. Your Possessions 3. Your Savings
What is my response? 1. Embrace a heart of generosity 2. Ask God, “What should I give”? 3. Repent

Personal Application

1. When someone gives you a gift, do you appreciate it more when it’s given cheerfully or begrudgingly? Why?
2. What do the Old Testament tithes teach us about giving?
3. Which of the scriptures listed above most encourages you in the area of giving? What does Matthew 6:21 teach you about your money and resources?
4. Which one of the three pots (income, possessions, and savings) do you find it the easiest to give from?
5. What are ways that you can think of that will help you to cultivate a heart of generosity? How can you put one of those into action this week?

It is clear from the scriptures that God wants us to be generous givers and that He does not want to have money rule over us. May you come to know more freedom in the area of giving!
]]> Wed, 9 Mar 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=55163 <![CDATA[Second Choice World]]> Second Choice World

Pastor Paul Reid

This past Sunday we had a guest speaker visiting with us from Ireland. Pastor Paul Reid shared with us on the topic of “Second Choice World”.

In the book of Daniel chapter 1 verses 1-21 we see the story of when Daniel and his three friends get dragged off to Babylon. They are forced to live there and to learn the Babylonian ways. In effect, we see that neither Daniel nor his friends found themselves in a place where they wanted to be. They were not in their “first choice world”, but rather in a second choice world.

They face three key issues in the second choice world:
1. Will their faith stand?
2. Will they become like the Babylonians?
3. Will they simply just survive, or will they flourish?

These are among some of the issues that they faced in Babylon. This was a second choice world to them. It was not a place where they wanted to be. Nevertheless, that is where they were and that is where God mightily used them.

There are three lies that we believe regarding a first choice world:
1. If I walk close enough to God, I would get a first choice world.
2. In my first choice world I would be happy.
3. Only in my first choice world will I walk close enough to God.

We see that in the example of Daniel and his friends that these three lies were not true at all.

Here are some reasons and guidelines for a second choice world:
1. It can begin because of disobedience.
2. It can begin because of others disobedience.
3. It is a place or renewal and discovery.
4. You have to go through it with friends.
5. We have to be submissive to God while we are in it.

Personal Application
1. Have you experienced being in a “second choice world” or similar situation? How did you respond? What were some of the challenges?
2. How did Daniel respond to his second choice world? What principles did he apply and how can we learn from those?
3. What lies do you believe regarding a first choice world? What does Scripture say to counter those lies?
4. How can God use your second choice world in your life? How can He use you in the midst of your second choice circumstances?

Regardless of what kind of world we find ourselves in, we need to remember that we are only there by the grace of God and that He intends to carry us through it. Daniel did not see it at first, but God used him to alter the course of a nation. May you be blessed and encouraged in whatever “world” you find yourself in.
]]> Tue, 1 Mar 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=54808 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]>

Weekly Devotional by J.P. Sieck

02/23/2011

My grandfather died around this time about two years ago. He was a son of the Great Depression, a husband to his wife of over 60 years, father to my mother, father to two adopted sons and a man of his word. I looked up to him and revered him. Recently, for a school unit on architecture, my oldest son worked with a team of students to create a model of the World War II Memorial in D.C. He and I visited that memorial with my grandfather a year before he died.

As I think about why I look up to my grandfather, I reckon it is that he lived a life of constant worship and witness. Nothing flashy, just learning (hearing) and obeying. Doing his duty, caring for others, sometimes doing what was unpopular for the sake of doing what was right. In 1 Samuel 1:18 we see that through ordinary acts of service Samuel was “ministering to the Lord.” He was doing what he was capable of doing as a child, faithfully it seems, to the best of his ability. So was my Granddad.

Likewise, for any Christian it is paramount that there is a congruence between how you live and what you profess to believe. Your ministry is the people around you. They see how you live and what you profess.

In order to live a life of constant worship and witness you must depend on God, not on yourself. This is easier said than done as to do so means death. That death, brings life. Counterintuitive but logical all the same.

This past week at the beginning of our worship service I mentioned that you don't pay taxes after you die. Likewise, you don't sin anymore after you die. I quoted Romans 6:5-8:

"For if we have become united with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly we shall also be in the likeness of His resurrection, knowing this, that our old self was crucified with Him, in order that our body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be slaves to sin; for he who has died is freed from sin. Now if we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with Him"

Whatever and whenever God demands of us, He supplies, for it is Christ that lives in us.

"For through the Law I died to the Law, so that I might live to God. I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me." Galatians 2:19-21

May we follow in the footsteps of Samuel, my grandfather, and others who simply depended on God to love Him and love others.

]]> Wed, 23 Feb 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=54598 <![CDATA[iRepent: Learning To Hate Sin]]>
Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest Custalow shared with us on the topic of repentance. We heard about how cultivating a lifestyle of repentance opens the door for fresh spiritual life and blessing.

Sin is the problem!

1. We are thoroughly sinful through and through. Our thoughts, affections and emotions are depraved.
2. God, who is holy, requires that sin be judged. Sin’s penalty is death and eternal separation from a Loving God.
3. Christ, the sinless God-Man, lovingly died in our place, thus paying in full the penalty for our sin.
4. Salvation is God forgiving our sin and applying Christ’s righteousness to us as we by faith surrender our lives to His love to live for him.
We know that sin is the problem, but what is the cure? Ps. Ernest listed three things for the cure to sin.
1. Justification (Gal. 2:20; 1 Cor. 10:12-13)
2. Sanctification
3. Glorification
Now that we know what sin is, what is repentance? Repentance is to change the way you think about something. It is a change of attitude and a change in behavior. (John 16:7-10)
There are two types of repentance: False repentance and genuine repentance.
False Repentance: I’m sorry, but I don’t change
To try to get God to bless me (manipulation)
It’s trying to get God to accept me (done out of works)
Genuine Repentance: Confession (see, admit, acknowledge) 1 John 1:8-9
Contrition (emotion, be sorrowful for sin) 2 Cor. 7:10
Change (an act of the will, change of behavior) Matthew 3:8

We need to cultivate the habit of repenting and learn to hate our sin and all sin. One thing that will greatly help us overcome sin is to become aware of our own internal sin. We can only do this through the help of the Holy Spirit (James 1:23-25, Hebrews 12:1-2).

Personal Application
1. What do you think life would look like if sin was not a factor? Do you know people who live as if sin is not a factor? What kind of effect does this perspective have on a person’s life?
2. Do you find that you are more prone to false repentance or genuine repentance? What do you do to help yourself be sincere when you repent?
3. Which one of the three points under genuine repentance do you find the easiest to do and which the hardest? Why do you think that is?
4. What are some steps that we can take to further cultivate a lifestyle of repentance?
John Owen said, “Be killing sin or it will be killing you.” The good news is that dying to sin releases spiritual life and blessing! May we experience that more and more in the months ahead!
]]> Wed, 23 Feb 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=54579 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]> Weekly Devotional by Wayne Wilson
02/16/2011

Over the past few months, I’ve spent a great deal of time reflecting on the biblical character Noah. Noah was one of the most significant people of all time. He is the bridge between Adam and Abraham. Information from the genealogies recorded in Genesis chapters 5, 9 and 11 indicate that Noah was born 126 years after Adam died and Noah died 2 years before the birth of Abraham. Noah and his family were chosen for the rebirth of the human race when God destroyed the rest of humanity in the great flood. In the Old Testament Noah’s righteousness was placed on par with that of Job’s and Daniel’s (Ezek. 14:14, 20).

What was so spectacular about Noah? In the Genesis account the quality that stands out above all the rest was Noah’s obedience to God (see, Gen. 6:14, 22; 7:1, 5; 8:15, 18). The most significant example of his obedience was in constructing the ark. The task of building the boat was monumental. The ark was 450 feet long, 75 feet wide and 45 feet high! It was the “largest sea going vessel built until the late nineteenth century when giant metal ships were first constructed” *Taken from “Could Noah's Ark really hold all the animals that were supposed to be preserved from Flood?” www.creationanswers.net]. The task of building the ark would have been costly because beyond purchasing the building materials, Noah was instructed to stock the ark with needed provisions (Gen. 6:21). And the task of building the ark required persistence; many believe the project required 120 years to complete (Genesis 6:3; 1 Pet. 3:20)!

What caused Noah to obey God? The writer to the Hebrews describes Noah as being motivated by the fear of God, “Noah . . . moved with godly fear, prepared an ark for the saving of his household” (Heb. 11:7, NKJV). Fearing God means holding Him in such reverence, awe and fear that one will trust Him and obey Him regardless of the cost. God is the most important person in the universe to the one who fears God, and displeasing Him is considered to be the most significant offense.

The Scriptures command us to fear God (Pro. 3:7; Eccles. 12:13; Rev. 14:7). And at times God calls us to tasks that will only be completed if we’re motivated by a biblical fear of God. How do we cultivate the fear of God? It is cultivated by reflecting on God’s character and experiencing His greatness. In the past some of the qualities that produced a deeper fear of God were His power (Ex. 20:18-20), glory (Luke 2:18), holiness, i.e., God is in a class by himself (Rev. 15:4), forgiveness (Ps. 130:4), kindness (1 Sam. 12:24), and faithfulness (Ps. 119:38).
This week I encourage you to invite God to develop within you a deeper fear of God by reflecting on who He is, how He has shown you His character, and then to live out of your renewed understanding of God!
]]> Wed, 16 Feb 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=54274 <![CDATA[iAnity or cHristianity]]> iAnity or Christianity 02/06/2011
Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest Custalow shared with us on the topic of selfishness.

iAnity is basically this:
1. Selfishness
2. Selfishness with God
3. Selfishness with others.
The definition of selfishness is basically: i needs, i wants, i importance, i pleasure, i comfort, i desire, i worship, i happiness.
The way that we should be living our lives is by putting God first and by putting others first.
Matthew 16:24-27, Romans 12:1-2, and Jeremiah 9:23-24 tells us about putting God first.
Philippians 2:3-11, Romans 12:10; 15:1-3, 1 Corinthians 10:23-24, and 1 John 3:16-17 tells us about putting others first.
One of the biggest things that we can do to stop selfishness is to die to self. We do that in these four ways:
1. Be empowered by the Holy Spirit
2. Repent daily
3. Say “Yes” to His will
4. Say “No” to the self
Personal Application
1. Have you been in a situation recently in which the other person acted selfishly? How did that affect your response? How did it affect the situation?
2. Selfishness never leaves the “victim” feeling good. It always has a negative effect. Can you think of a situation where your selfish action negatively affected others? How would you respond differently in hindsight?
3. Philippians 2:3-11 affirms that it is appropriate to look after our own interests, but we must also look after the interests of others. Where in your life do you find it difficult to balance these?
4. In what areas of your life are you most tempted to be selfish? How can you practically stretch yourself to make God and others a higher priority in those areas? Who would be a good person to help you stay accountable to these goals?
5. In order for us to beat selfishness, we need to die to self daily. How can you incorporate the four ways of dying to self in your daily life?
Jesus Christ came to serve us. He came in the likeness of man to serve man, even unto death. May we endeavor to more like Him and put others first at all times.
]]> Wed, 9 Feb 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=53988 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]>

Weekly Devotional by Brandon Jones

02/09/2011

“Consider it pure joy my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” James 1:2-4

James states that perseverance is the product of faith being tested with many trials. While nobody likes being challenged on their faith, James says to “Consider it pure joy.” He says this because perseverance makes a soul “mature and complete.”

This is the necessary food that will help you grow spiritually. It can change you from a spiritual baby to a spiritual soldier that does “not lack anything.” But in order for it to this, you must face trials and when you do, you must have faith in God, for only faith can produce perseverance. What is faith then? Faith is trusting in God without doubt and believing that whatever trials you face, God will always be there to bring you through. This does not mean that you can sit down and float through the trial however. In order to overcome a trial, one must act in the defense of one’s faith. And in order to defend your faith, one must be armed with the Armor of God that is listed in Ephesians 6:10-18. Whenever you face a trial, use Ephesians 6:10-18 as a checklist to make sure you have all of your gear (truth, faith, salvation, the Word of God, and righteousness). When you are armed, go out there and face your trial.

When you have overcome every obstacle, you have persevered. This is one more step to becoming “mature and complete, not lacking anything.” REJOICE when you persevere. Don’t take trials as the world does. Be joyful at the chance to prove that God is the Almighty, the All-Knowing, and the Faithful. I challenge you to apply perseverance to your life and grow spiritually as you do. Be saturated in the Word of God. “Pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:17, 18). If you want to apply perseverance to your life, pray and ask God to help you. God is good, and will “meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:19).

]]> Wed, 9 Feb 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=53987 <![CDATA[Kingdom Advance in the Workplace]]> Kingdom Advance in the Work Place 01/30/2011
Pastor Wayne Wilson

This past Sunday Pastor Wayne Wilson shared with us about advancing the Kingdom in the work place. He used the life of Daniel to lift out some key principle in this process.

In the book of Daniel we see the story of how a man and his three friends affected the culture around them and how they applied biblical principles in a secular environment.

Daniel possessed three unique qualities:
1. Daniel was enlightened by God (Dan. 1:17, 2:17-19; Col. 2:2-3)
2. Daniel was committed to God (Dan. 1:19-20, 6:4-5; Col. 3:22-25)
a. Positively, he did his work with excellence
b. Negatively, Daniel would not put his work ahead of God.
3. Daniel used his influence strategically (Dan. 2: 48-49)


Personal Application
1. What is one of the best moments you’ve experienced at work? What is one of the worst?
2. Daniel and his three friends were in difficult conditions. They were resettled in a foreign land, in a foreign culture learning unbiblical ideas. How did three qualities listed above help Daniel not only survive but thrive and bring the Kingdom into his work?
3. Does the story of Daniel encourage you regarding your work place? How can you implement some of his “tactics” in your job?
4. What are some different ways in which you have attempted to advance the Kingdom in your workplace? What were the results?


We have the privilege of being ambassadors for Christ in our workplace! Seek God for His wisdom on how you can be salt and light wherever He has placed you at work.]]> Wed, 2 Feb 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=53716 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]> Weekly Devotional by Ken Stout
1/26/2011

“The words that I have spoken to you are spirit and are life.” John 6:63
Simon Peter answered Him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have words of eternal life.” John 6:68

After you have walked with Jesus for a while, you have the opportunity to experience the reality of these verses in a new way. When you first come to know Jesus, His words, both in Scripture and spoken to your heart in prayer, have the sense of life that comes from newness, freshness, and discovery. Like the disciples, you realize that no one else has ever spoken like this before. Your eyes feel opened to new ways of seeing familiar things, people, and situations from a spiritual perspective. I remember in high school when I first sensed the conviction of the Holy Spirit over the issue of purity. The influence of our worldly culture had begun to take its toll on my attitudes and actions. But Jesus brought a whole new purpose and vision to maintaining a high standard of purity. Suddenly, He spoke about marriage and relationships with a whole new perspective that was outside of my cultural lens. He had the words of life. What hadn’t made sense now did. The dots connected. It set me on a path of building a strong foundation for my future marriage and family.

At some point, though, the newness begins to wear off. You’ve heard that sermon before, read that passage of Scripture, been to that meeting. Where’s the life in it now? The life is still there. Jesus is still speaking to you, and there’s nothing of greater eternal value than what He has to say. Nothing else can replace the presence of the Word of God in your life. That kind of eternal, spiritual reality only proceeds from Him. That’s one of the reasons our flesh and our Enemy want to distract us with other things, even good things. But tested by the weight of real life and all that it includes, only the Living Word has the substance to sustain us, guide us, instruct us, and lead us to hope and joy. Everything else ends up empty, fleeting, and unable to meet that God-given hunger in the center of our hearts for spiritual life.

As you go about your responsibilities and schedule this week, set aside time to receive the words of spirit and life from God himself. Before breakfast, in the car (but not reading!), at lunch, with your kids, on a walk. Feed your soul on the true bread that came down from Heaven (John 6:51), and let spiritual life flow out from you.]]> Wed, 26 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=53350 <![CDATA[The Sanctity of Human Life]]>
The Sanctity of Human Life 01/23/2011
Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest Custalow shared with us about the sanctity of human life focusing specifically on abortion in America.

Since 1973 there have been over 51 million abortions in America. Broken down it looks like this:
1,200,000 per year
3,288 per day
137 per hour
9 every 4 minutes
1 every 26 seconds

Abortion is a moral issue. Pastor Ernest shared three reasons why abortion is sin:
1. Abortion seeks to destroy the image of God. (Gen. 1:26-28, Heb. 2:5-8)
2. Abortion kills the destiny and purpose of the individual (Luke 1:13, Luke 1:41, Ps. 139:13-16, Ps. 12:3-5, Heb. 7:9-10, Jer. 1:5, Gal. 1:15)
3. Abortion is like idolatry (Jer. 32:35)


Personal Application
1. When did you first become aware of the issue of abortion? What were your first responses to this issue? Have your views changed over time?
2. Ernest shared several times that the pro-life message should be one of love and redemption, not hate and condemnation. Why is this so important?
3. Based on what your heard from Susan and Herb Brown’s testimony, how does the enemy use guilt and shame in the lives of people involved with abortion? What is the message of the gospel to people in this situation?
4. Scripture calls us to both prayer and action when we challenge unrighteousness in our society. What are some practical things you can do to make your voice heard in confronting abortion?


God calls us to respect life and to treat it like He does. The issue of abortion is a very real one and it requires our voices and for us to stand up and oppose it. ]]> Wed, 26 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=53348 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]> Weekly Devotional by Ernest Custalow
1/19/2011

Ambassadors and Agents

II Corinthians 5:18-20 states, “Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation. Now then, we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were pleading through us: we implore you on Christ’s behalf, be reconciled to God.

Life can get really busy. There is so much to do. So many priorities. As Christians we can often become focused on the tasks at hand that we miss ministry opportunities right in front of our eyes. We pray that the Lord will help us with our many duties. We ask for His blessings in all of our endeavors. And, well we should. But, we should also remember to ask God each day to open a door of ministry to those who do not know Him. We need to be keenly aware that the Father’s heart is yearning to reconcile the lost to Himself. If we don’t speak out, who will? How will they hear if we don’t share His love for them? My prayer is that we will all arise each day with a confident expectation that God will use us that day to further His kingdom. People who are sick or facing difficult situations are often open to prayer. Ask if you can pray for them and let the Holy Spirit do His work. Let us be resolute and bold in knowing that the Holy Spirit is pleading through us when we share His kingdom with them. We can leave the results to Him. We just need to be faithful witnesses.

Recently I saw a photo of an eagle standing in close proximity to a bunch of vultures on a golf course. I thought, surely this eagle has forgotten his identity. Why is he hanging out with vultures? Sometimes, I think we get so busy with life that we forget who we are, too. The truth is that we are ambassadors and agents for Christ’s kingdom. It’s who we are. Yes, we are sons and daughters. And, as children of our King, he has appointed us ambassadors and given us the ministry of reconciliation.

So, let us pray each morning that Jesus would lead us to those who desperately need to know Him, those whom he loves with an everlasting passion and wants to draw to himself. Don’t forget your identity and never get too busy to do the work of an ambassador and agent of Christ’s kingdom. Why don’t you pray right now and ask God that you might see the opportunities right in front of you?]]> Wed, 19 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=53053 <![CDATA[The Power of Community]]>
The Power of Community 01/16/2011
Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest Custalow shared with us from the Scriptures (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Ephesians 2:19-22, 1 Corinthians 3:9; 16-17) about the power of living life in a community. It is vital for the believer to be plugged in!

Three points on community:
1. God has a plan for community (Rom. 12:10, Rom. 15:7, 1 Cor. 12:25, Eph. 4:32, 1 Thess. 5:11, James 5:16, 1 Pet. 4:10, 1 John 4:11)
2. There are benefits to community friendships
a. Secular studies have shown that someone who lives in community (with close people around them) are healthier and live longer than those who do not.
b. Life is easier when done with friends.
3. There are spiritual benefits to community
a. The presence of Jesus (Matt. 18:20)
b. Encouragement (Ecc. 4:9-12)
c. Protection and security (Ecc. 4:12)
d. Mutual care (Heb. 10:24-25)
e. Sanctification (Heb. 10:24-25)
f. Prophetic witness (John 13:34-35)
g. Growth (Eph. 4:16)

Pastor Ernest summed this up for us by listing the seven things that spiritual friends are and provide: builders, champions, collaborators, companions, connectors, energizers, navigators.

Personal Application
1. Think about a TV show you’ve seen where people lived in community, either as an extended family or as friends in close proximity to each other. What made it interesting to watch? How was it different than real life?
2. Can you recall a situation in your life where you experienced the practical benefit of being connected to community? How were you helped?
3. Ephesians 4:32 uses God’s forgiveness toward us in Christ as a model for how we are to forgive others. What other aspects of God’s actions and thoughts toward us are a model for how we are to relate with other people?
4. Thinking about the spiritual benefits of community, how are you encouraged by the things that the Scriptures promise? How have you been able to experience these?
5. What are one or two practical steps you can take to more fully connect in biblical community with other believers?

Jesus puts people in our lives so that we can be spurred on in spiritual life and godliness. May you be encouraged to give live out true community in your pursuit of Jesus.]]> Wed, 19 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=53051 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]>
Weekly Devotional by Dale Hewitt
January 5, 2011

Just this last week during the Tokyo Marathon the lead runner was half a block from the finish when he turned right and off course. He had the finish line in sight but was distracted by the television truck and followed it instead of going straight. By the time he realized his error he had lost his place, eventually coming in third. The image of the marathon runner going of course will forever be memorialized in YouTube video.

I thought that this story serves as a perfect metaphor of how easy it is to become distracted and lose our way. How many careers, lives and relationships have been destroyed by one momentary slip or failure and all of it being viewed by Heaven’s own version of YouTube.

Surprisingly, Scripture has a few things to say about races. In I Corinthians 9 and Hebrews 12 we are admonished to train ourselves to run, to run to win, to set aside any distractions that would keep us from finishing the race and to keep our eyes fixed on the prize.

Perhaps for many of us life seems too much like a race. We zoom from one event to another, racing to work, school and appointments, trying to stay ahead of the demands that constantly clamor for our attention. Sometime our Christian faith may feel like one more demanding race that tries our patience and strength. It all may seem to be true except for one thing. The Prize.

The Scriptures freely declare that Christ is superior and supreme in all endeavors of life. His own words declare it so, "For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake, he is the one who will save it.” It is our testimony that Jesus is sufficient for all our needs. It seems when we lose sight of the Prize the race feels too difficult and our desire to run fades.

So what are we to do when life is hard and busy? Hebrews 12:1-3 (from The Message) gives us a clear direction of how to run that race:

“Do you see what this means—all these pioneers who blazed the way, all these veterans cheering us on? It means we'd better get on with it. Strip down, start running—and never quit! No extra spiritual fat, no parasitic sins. Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we're in. Study how he did it. Because he never lost sight of where he was headed—that exhilarating finish in and with God—he could put up with anything along the way: Cross, shame, whatever. And now he's there, in the place of honor, right alongside God. When you find yourselves flagging in your faith, go over that story again, item by item, that long litany of hostility he plowed through. That will shoot adrenaline into your souls!”]]> Wed, 12 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=52702 <![CDATA[Weekly Devotional]]>
Weekly Devotional by Jeremy Pendergraft
1/12/2011

For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. -Romans 8:15

The older I get and the longer I pursue God, the more that He highlights in gentle ways my need to see His kingdom come and His will be done in my own heart, in my own life. Simple truths that I thought I knew are becoming relearned and I realize just how little I actually knew them in the first place…

“Dad,” my oldest son called out to me in the middle of the night from our hallway. I was deep in sleep and as I opened my eyes, I noticed that a bit of light came spilling out from the lit hallway into our darkened room. “Dad!” a little more urgent, a little more strained. Jonathan was in the hallway but fear kept him from coming into our room because it was darker than the lit hallway. I rose from my bed and came to him.

“Did you have a nightmare?” I asked.
“Yeah, it was really scary.” Jonathan replied.
“It’s okay buddy.” I assured him placing my arm around his shoulder.
We headed back to his room and I laid down with him because I knew that my presence would bring peace and chase away the fears that kept peace and sleep from my little boy--“Perfect love casts out all fear.”
The fears that my son was experiencing were very real to him, though I knew that the monsters he feared were no real threat. We had spoken about these fears and prayed about them in the light of day but in the middle of the night they seemed so real. For us it really is not much different. As I lay with my son the Lord was speaking to me about my fears that I had prayed in the light of day but at times in the “dark” they seemed so “scary.” I had nothing but a desire to protect and bring peace and the truth to my son to dispel his fears. The Lord reminded me that my love for Jonathan was a small reflection of his desire for protection, peace and truth for me. Yet, how much was I letting his presence envelope me with His perfect love that casts out fear? For you, what are your fears? What keeps you up at night--last night or maybe this last week? Call to the Lord and he promises that as you draw near to him he will draw near to you. Cry “Dad!” or “Abba!” and he will come to you. Take a moment and give him your fears today and then invite his presence to come and enfold you with his comforting love. As only our heavenly Father can, let His love cast out your fear.]]> Wed, 12 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=52672 <![CDATA[Heaven's Mandate: Rescue the Lost]]>
Heaven’s Mandate: Rescue the Lost 01/09/2011
Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest Custalow shared with us from the scriptures about Heaven’s Mandate on saving the lost.

From Luke 15:1-24 we see three different stories about something that is lost or has been lost. We see the stories about the lost sheep, the woman who lost a coin, and the lost son. In all three of these stories we see different representations about God. Jesus portrays himself as the good a shepherd, He crosses the gap by presenting himself as a woman earnestly looking for something that is lost (representing fallen man), and we see the Father embracing his lost son.

Three thoughts on this:
1. The Lost Value
a. Intrinsic value of each person (Matt. 18:14, Ez. 18:23;32, Matt. 9:36-38, 1 Tim. 1:15, Luke 19:10, Luke 5:31-32, John 3:16, 2 Cor. 5:18-20, Matt. 28:19, John 20:21; 4:35-38, 1 Cor. 9:19-22)

2. The All Out Search
a. Intentional search
b. Intense search

3. The Party Central
a. Heaven rejoices over lost souls coming to Jesus Christ


Personal Application
1. Have you ever lost something that meant a lot to you? How did you find it? How did that make you feel when you found it?
2. As you read Luke 15:1-24, is there a particular story that you relate with? How would you have responded in a similar situation?
3. How open are you to being used by God to reach the lost? Are you inspired or challenged or both?
4. How has God wired you in order to reach the lost? What are your strengths?
5. How can you grow in the above areas to be a better and more affective witness for God?

Jesus said that the harvest is plenty but the laborers are few. May you be more aware of the great need for, and the great joy in, reaching the lost.]]> Wed, 12 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=52671 <![CDATA[Lies Christians Believe]]> “Lies That Christians Believe” 01/02/2011
Pastor Jim Gilbert

This past Sunday we heard from guest speaker Jim Gilbert. He shared with us about the different lies that Christians believe and how these lies render us ineffective.

Jim spoke out of John 8:31-32 that says that we will be set free if we know the truth. From this he noted that conversely, we are rendered ineffective when we believe lies. Jim shared six lies that are generally believed by Christians.

The six lies:
1. We have made more out of the devil than what he really is.
2. Faith and politics do not mix. Politics must be religiously neutral.
3. The Old Testament is irrelevant to the Christian Life.
4. Sin and evil has been and will be historically prevalent.
5. When Jesus comes He will rescue His people.
6. We should live like renters, not heirs on the earth.

The truth to these lies:
1. God is completely in charge. The devil is not a threat to God or his plans.
2. We are to be involved in all aspects of society and bring God’s truth and wisdom.
3. The Old Testament is very relevant to the Christian Life. It was what Jesus preached out of in His ministry.
4. The kingdom has advanced and will continue to advance. There has been progress and progress will continue.
5. He comes to crown His plan, not rescue the church or the world.
6. The earth is not a rental property. We will inherit the earth.


Personal Application
1. Do you know someone that easily believes lies or someone that lives life based on lies? What does their life look like? How effective are they at what they do?
2. What are some of the effects the lies can have on us as believers? What lies are you particularly vulnerable to believing?
3. Looking at the six lies that Jim mentioned, do you see any lies that you believe or have believed? How?
4. In light of John 8:31-32, how can you live more fully in the truth?


May you continue to experience truth as you walk out faith and live your life. May the truth of Jesus Christ always be near your heart.]]> Fri, 7 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=52471 <![CDATA[Seeking Christ on Christmas]]> “Seeking Christ on Christmas” 12/26/2010
Pastor Dale Hewitt

This past week we heard form Pastor Dale Hewitt about seeking Christ on Christmas.
In Matthew 2:1-12 we read the story of the Magi and their involvement in the Christmas story. We see their journey and how they sought Jesus by following the star that God had provided for them.

Three things about seeking: (Ps. 27:4; Heb. 11:6)
1. God seeks us first (John 6:44; Rev. 3:20; Eph. 2:1-7
2. Came to worship (Rom. 12:1)
3. Came to give (Isa. 60:5, 11; 61:6; 66:20; Zeph. 3:10; Hag. 27-8)

Three reasons for giving:
1. We give because God commands us (Acts 20:35, Heb. 13:16; Luke 12:15-34)
2. It releases God’s provision (Luke 6:38)
3. For Joy (Phil. 3:7-8; Heb. 12:2)


Personal Application
1. What was something that you were recently looking for in your daily life? How did you respond when you found it?
2. In considering your own walk with God, what examples or “heavenly fingerprints” do you see of God seeking you first and pursuing you out of love?
3. When you approach various situations in your own life, how much are you looking to give to other people and how much are you expecting them to give to you?
4. How can you grow in the lifestyle of giving? What’s one practical thing you can do this week to stretch yourself in giving?


May you walk in the joy of a life of generosity!]]> Fri, 7 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=52470 <![CDATA[The Blessing of Christmas: Part 3]]> “The Blessing of Christmas: Part 3” 12/24/2010
Pastor Ernest Custalow

In our Christmas Eve service, Pastor Ernest looked at Elizabeth’s blessing and the shepherds blessing in the Christmas story.

Elizabeth’s Blessing (Luke 1:39-45)
- The blessing of encouragement
- The blessing of faith
When Mary goes to see Elizabeth we see this wonderful exchange that takes place between them. Elizabeth speaks life over Mary and Mary is very encouraged by this. Not only does it encourage Mary, but it also builds up her own faith.

The Shepherds Blessing (Luke 2:8-19)
- The blessing of salvation
- The blessing of testimony
The shepherds go to see the new king by the word that they received from the angels. It is in the seeing of Jesus that they are blessed with the knowledge of salvation. This child will be the one to bring salvation to the world, and they get to see him. Consequently, this causes them to go out and tell of what they have seen.


Personal Application
1. Has someone recently encouraged you? How did you respond?
2. From the interaction between Mary and Elizabeth, what do you notice about their relationship with one another and with God?
3. When you consider your own salvation, what moves you the most to praise God and thank Him for bringing you into His Kingdom?
4. How has God wired you to testify about His grace in Jesus Christ? How can you grow in more faithfully testifying about His gift of salvation and His goodness in your life?


May all the blessings of Christmas abound to you!]]> Fri, 7 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=52469 <![CDATA[The Blessing of Christmas: Part 2]]> “The Blessing of Christmas: Part 2” 12/19/2010
Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on “The Blessing of Christmas”.
Pastor Ernest looked at different blessings that people experienced in the Christmas story.

We looked at the blessing of Mary’s song, the blessing of Simeon, and the Magi’s blessing.

The Blessing of Mary’s Song (Luke 1:46-56)
- The blessing of humility (Is. 66:1-2; Prov. 8:13; Prov. 16:18; Phil. 2:5-10)
- The blessing of serving
We see in the blessing of Mary’s song (Mary’s Magnificat) how she is full of humility in the whole ordeal of being the one to carry the Lord Jesus Christ. She is both humble and eager to serve in whatever is required of her.

The Blessing of Simeon (Luke 2:25-35)
- The blessing of the prophetic (1 Cor. 14:3; 1 Tim. 1:18)
In the blessing of Simeon we see what a tremendous effect it can have on us to hear the word of God and then to see it fulfilled. Simeon was told by God that he would see the salvation of the world, and then he did.

The Magi’s Blessing (Matt. 2:9-12)
- The blessing of seeking
- The blessing of provision
They were richly blessed to find that which they were seeking, the new king. Along with being blessed, they themselves were a blessing to Joseph and Mary with the gifts that they brought them.


Personal Application
1. What is one of your favorite Christmas carols? What about that song inspires you?
2. How does Mary’s life as recorded in Scripture reflect the humility that we see in her song?
3. We can see the word of God fulfilled all around us if we learn to see with spiritual eyes. How have you seen God’s faithfulness to His Word in your life? How have you seen the teachings of Scripture applied to life that led to blessing for you or others?
4. What are you seeking, like the Magi, in this season of your life? What do you need that only God can fulfill? What are some distractions or obstacles to your seeking God?


May you be blessed as you reflect upon the different blessings of the Christmas Story.]]> Fri, 7 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=52468 <![CDATA[The Blessing of Christmas: Part 1]]>
“The Blessing of Christmas: Part 1” 12/12/2010
Pastor Ernest Custalow

This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on blessing. He began a three part sermon on the topic of Christmas blessing.

Pastor Ernest looked at different blessings that people experienced in the Christmas story. We looked at the Angel’s blessing and at Joseph’s blessing.

The Angel’s Blessing (Luke 1:26-38)
- The Blessing of God’s Sovereignty
- The Blessing of Personal Encounters
In the Angel’s blessing we see that Mary is blessed by what the angel Gabriel tells her. She is blessed by God for choosing her in his sovereignty and she is blessed by having a personal encounter with God through the angel Gabriel.

Joseph’s Blessing (Matthew 1:18-24)
- The Blessing of Spiritual Authority
In Joseph’s blessing we see how he is blessed through the authority of Jesus to him. He submits himself to the authority and word of Jesus and responds to Mary out of that place of submission. Mary in turn, is doing the same thing by submitting to Joseph.


Personal Application
1. What are some of the biggest blessings that you have received in the Christmas season How did they affect your life?
2. What is the biggest blessing that you have ever given to someone else in the Christmas season? What was their response? What effect did that have on you?
3. Have you considered God’s sovereignty to be a blessing in your life? In what ways?
4. How do you encounter God in a personal way in your own life?
5. How do you respond to spiritual authority in your own life? What part of Joseph and Mary’s response to authority in their lives stands out to you?


May you be blessed as you reflect upon the different blessings of the Christmas Story.]]> Fri, 7 Jan 2011 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=52467 <![CDATA[Senior High Youth Christmas Party]]> Please join the Sr. High Youth tonight for their Annual Christmas party!
Please visit our event page for more information.
]]> Fri, 10 Dec 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=51522 <![CDATA[The Power of Blessing, Part 2.2]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on Blessing. He took us deeper into Ephesians 1:3-14 as he focused on what Spiritual Blessings are.

Defining Spiritual Blessings
We Are: Accepted (Eph. 1:6)
Forgiven (Eph. 1:7)
Knowing His Will (Eph.1:9-10, Col. 1:15-20, Rom. 11:38, 1 Cor. 15:25-28, Phil. 3:7-8)
Inheritance (Eph. 1:11, 1 Pet. 1:3-12, Rom. 11:33, Eph. 1:18)
Sealed By the Spirit (Eph. 1:13-14, 2 Cor. 5:1-5)


We see from these passages that we are to live a certain way based on all of the spiritual blessings that we have in Jesus Christ. We indeed are God’s blessed people. Amen!


Personal Application

1. Looking over the past week, what is one way that you experienced blessing? One way you blessed someone else?
2. Describe a specific way each of the spiritual blessings makes a difference in our lives.
3. Which of the blessings are you most aware of in your own life? Which the least?
4. Which blessing would you most like to experience more? What are some practical things you can do to increase your awareness of that blessing?
5. As you read the scriptures that Pastor Ernest used, do you see the heart of God for you? Try and set some time aside this week to read through God’s word and hear what the Father has to say to you regarding the above scriptures.


We are blessed in order to be a blessing to others. And we can be blessing because we have every spiritual blessing in Christ Jesus who strengthens us and who works all things for the good of those who love Him.


]]> Thu, 9 Dec 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=51470 <![CDATA[The Power of Blessing, Part 2]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest continued with his series on Blessing. He took us deeper into Ephesians 1:3-14 as he focused on what Spiritual Blessings are.

Defining Spiritual Blessings
We Are: Chosen (Eph. 1:4, 1 Pet. 2:9-10)
Holy (Rom. 8:29, Eph. 5:23-27)
Children of God (Eph. 1:5, Rom. 8:15-16, Gal. 4:5-7)
Redeemed (Eph. 1:7)
(Pastor Ernest will add to and continue this list in his next installment on this series)

We see from these passages that we are to live a certain way based on all of the spiritual blessings that we have in Jesus Christ. We indeed are God’s blessed people. Amen!
]]> Thu, 9 Dec 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=51469 <![CDATA[Saturday Prayer Meeting in D.C]]> Normal 0 false false false EN-US X-NONE X-NONE MicrosoftInternetExplorer4

We wanted to let you know about this great prayer opportunity with Pat Mahoney.

Join us Saturday, December 4, in Washington, D.C. as we
stand as prophetic witness for "Justice in Iraq."
Please see our event for more details.
]]> Fri, 3 Dec 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=51267 <![CDATA[The Power of Blessing]]> This past Sunday Pastor Ernest started a new series on blessing. We heard about the Power of Blessing and how we are blessed with every spiritual blessing in Jesus Christ.

The first thing that we need to know is that God is a “blesser”! He blesses us in a variety of ways. This word “blesser” means to “speak well of”. We see examples of this in Genesis 1:26-31, 12:1-3, 26:3-5, 28:14.

God speaks words of: Purpose
Promise
Provision
Praise
Protection

Our appropriate response to this is to say, “I am blessed”. We are blessed in Christ! Our blessings flow from Christ!

What are these blessing?
- Every Spiritual Blessing
- Our Blessings Are Spiritual
We see this in Ephesians 1:3-14. We are told by Paul that we have “every spiritual blessing” in Christ Jesus.

Personal Application

1. Have you ever been in the position to bless someone? What did that look like and how did it feel doing it? Was the person blessed? What was their reaction?
2. Can you name the major blessings that you have received in your life? How did they impact you?
3. In the times that you have been blessed, were you able to identify the 5 “P”s that Pastor Ernest mentioned?
4. As you live your daily life, what sort of heart attitude do you tend to have? How aware are you of God’s blessings in your life? What can you do to increase your awareness of all His blessings?
5. How have you blessed someone recently?
6. During the sermon Pastor Ernest said that this week is “Bless a friend” week. Take some time to plan out a blessing, and then go and do it. Maybe even make it a group effort.
7. As you go about your week, think about some creative ways that you can be a blessing to others.

We are blessed in order to be a blessing to others. And we can be a blessing because we have every spiritual blessing in Christ Jesus who strengthens us and who works all things for the good of those who love Him.
]]> Fri, 3 Dec 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=51262 <![CDATA[Abandoned]]> This past week we heard from Pastor Jeremy Pendergraft about the topic of abandonment, and more pointedly, how that manifests itself in our relationship with God.

Pastor Jeremy read from Matthew 27:45-54 the story of Jesus when He was crucified and what happened during all of this. We were told that Jesus completely understands our feelings of abandonment in life in that He himself felt the ultimate abandonment on the cross, expressed when he called out, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me”?

We see from the passage in Matthew that 5 major things happened:

1. Darkness over all the land (the light of men died)
2. Earthquakes (the foundations shook as the King offered up his spirit)
3. Rocks splitting (in the silence of men the rocks praised him)
4. The dead raised (by his death there is new life)
5. The veil of the Jewish temple was torn from top to bottom (his death made a way for us to come before the Father)

Through all these things we see we never have to feel abandoned because Jesus experienced the ultimate abandonment on our behalf and took that upon himself. Because He was abandoned, we are not. God will never abandon us! (Romans 8:15; 38-39)

Practical Application

1. Do you know anybody, a friend, neighbor, coworker, etc., that not only feels abandoned, but you can actually see it in the way that they live? What do you think they need?
2. When you went through a tragic or intense event, did you have a sense of abandonment or hope? How did you respond?
3. When you think about everything that happened when Jesus was on the cross, does it encourage you to hear He did all that for you? What does that mean to you?
4. Can you think of any ways that you could foster this perspective of “adoption” and reject the lie of abandonment?
5. As you think these things over, take some time over the next few days and spend time with God focusing on this truth: You are His child.

May you be encouraged this week with the knowledge that God will never leave nor forsake you. Take heart in knowing that He is your Father.]]> Fri, 3 Dec 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=51261 <![CDATA[What your friends won't tell you, but God will.]]> In this past week’s sermon we heard from Pastor Dale about the importance of knowing our deep need for God. He did this by showing us from the Scriptures exactly where we come from.

Pastor Dale showed us from the book of Ephesians that we were once dead in our sins and that there truly is no good in us but God.
From Ephesians 2:1-10 we see that we were: Dead in sin
Disobedient
Dissolute
Doomed

This is not meant to be taken in a condemning way but rather in an approach of self-examination. We see this thought come through in Ephesians 2:11-12 with the word “Remember”. We need to remember where we were in our lives before we came to the saving knowledge in Jesus Christ.

The act of “Remembering” serves us in three ways:
1. Guard against self-sufficiency (Deut. 8:11-17).
2. Guard against self-righteousness. (Romans 10:2-3)
3. Guard against ungratefulness.

Personal Application

1. Have you ever met someone who was ungrateful or self-righteous? What was the situation and how did you respond?
2. How would you describe your life before you came to know Jesus as your Savior? How did the four “D”s Pastor Dale mentioned look in your life?
3. Which of the three temptations – self-sufficiency, self-righteousness, or ungratefulness – are you more susceptible to?
4. What are some practical things you can do to guard against them?
5. Take a few moments and try writing God a letter. It does not have to be long or impressive. Simply try to put on paper your gratefulness of the change in your life.


The amazing truth in all of this is that God loves us, even in our sin! He wants us to live pure and holy lives before Him. Lives that are grateful and that rely upon Him.]]> Tue, 26 Oct 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=49688 <![CDATA[Cindy and the Godfather - A Dinner Theater Production]]>
Grace Center for the Arts presents a dinner theater production of "Cindy and the Godfather", a delightful retelling of the classic "Cinderella" with a Christian twist. Performances on October 22nd and 23rd right here in the Worship Center. Tickets may be purchased at www.gracearts.org. Come out for a great meal and a great performance at "Cindy and the Godfather"!
]]> Fri, 15 Oct 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=49196 <![CDATA[The Big Picture – Who Are You?]]> In this week’s sermon we heard more from Pastor Ernest about “Who Are You”. Pastor Ernest took us a little deeper into the big picture by looking at how you fit into all of this.

The world will tell you that “Who You Are” is based on your DNA. Is “Who You Are” based on randomness or design?

The world will tell you that “Who You Are” is based on what you believe philosophically and on your religion.

  • Existentialism? (Is this all that there is?)
  • Reincarnation? (Do you hope to come back as a better form of yourself?)
  • Continue After Death? (Do you believe that there is life after death, and life everlasting?)
The World will tell you that “Who You Are” is based on what you do.
  • Are you a lawyer?
  • Are you a farmer?
  • Are you a construction worker?

We see from the Scriptures that we are first a Christian.

This is our identity:

1. Church (Eph. 1:22-25, 1 Pet. 2:9-10, Rev. 1:5-6)

2. The Temple (Eph. 2:19-22)

3. Children (Eph. 3:14-19)

4. Body (Eph. 4:11-16)

5. Bride (Eph. 5:23-32, 2 Cor. 11:2, Rev. 19:7, 21:9)

6. Army (Eph. 6:10-13, 2 Tim. 2:3-4)

Personal Application:

1. What do you typically answer when you think of the question, “Who am I?”

2. Looking at the six descriptions of the church from Ephesians, which of these is the most remarkable or surprising to you? Why?

3. Which of these do you tend to relate with most? Why?

4. About which of these do you think the Lord wants to give you a fresh understanding ? In what way?

5. The question, “Who Are You?” is a very real and ultimately personal one. Take some time now and meditate on this. Write down a few key thoughts.

6. Once you have written your thoughts down, bring it before the Lord and ask Him to show you who He thinks you are. Were there any differences between how you think of yourself and how the Lord thinks of you? If yes, ask the Lord for insight on the differences.

Jesus was fully alive and completely secure in himself because He knew exactly who He was and what His purpose was. May you discover more life and freedom this week in knowing “Who You Are” as you discover who you are in Jesus!

]]> Fri, 15 Oct 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=49177 <![CDATA[The Big Picture – Reaching the World II]]> In this week’s sermon we heard more from Pastor Ernest about The Big Picture, focusing more on “Reaching the World”.

In Luke 5:1-11, 9:1-6, 10:1-3 and 10:17-20 we see Jesus call and then send out his disciples to advance the Kingdom.

Can God Use Imperfect Me?

Jesus chose ordinary people to be his disciples.

Jesus sent them out before they graduated.

They had imperfections.

The Spirit has empowered us to be witnesses (Acts 1:8).

In the Scriptures we see that God has indeed sent us out. He wants us to go out and make disciples of all nations. John 20:21, Matthew 10:16, Luke 4:18-19, Luke 9:48, Luke 10:16, John 6:38, John 8:18 and John 17:18 all teach us that Jesus has indeed commissioned us to be sent out.

Personal Application:

1. What are some of the characteristics of Jesus’ disciples when they were first called to follow Him?

2. How would you describe what you were like when Jesus first called you to follow Him?

3. What are some of the things you tell yourself, or are tempted to tell yourself, to disqualify you from being used by God to reach others?

4. What do you think God would say to those things (from question 3)?

5. How has God uniquely shaped and empowered you by His Spirit to reach out to others?

6. What practical changes can you make in your life to be more available to reach others, or to be more aware of the opportunities that you may not have noticed before?

]]> Sun, 3 Oct 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=48832 <![CDATA[The Big Picture - Reaching the World]]>
In this week’s sermon we heard more from Pastor Ernest about The Big Picture, focusing on “Reaching the World”. He reminded us that the mission statement of the Church, as shown to us through the scriptures, is, “Loving God, Serving Others, and Reaching the World”. In Luke 5:1-11, 9:1-6, 10:1-3 and 10:17-20 we see Jesus call and then send out his disciples to advance the Kingdom. Reaching the world means declaring and extending the message and culture of Christ’s Kingdom wherever we go.
We see this truth represented in John 3:16 in that God sent His own Son, Jesus Christ, to come and extend the Kingdom and its far-reaching influence through His death on the cross. The message of the Kingdom is profoundly simple, “God Loves Sinners!” We see this actively and purposefully portrayed in the life and actions of Jesus Christ.
The culture of the Kingdom is “Life.” It is irrevocably life! Jesus Christ came that we might have life and have to it to the full!
Personal Application:
  1. Take some time to reflect upon these truths. When we consider the works of His hands, the wonders that He has done, and how he bore our sins and died for us—all because of His love for us, all that we can do is worship. Take few moments to worship Him through prayer or song.
  2. If you had to write it down, what would the mission statement of your life be?
  3. Think over the mission statement of Grace Church of Fredericksburg. What stands out to you about it? Which part motivates you the most? Why?
  4. Does the idea of “reaching the world” intimidate you or inspire you? Why?
  5. How is reaching the world connected to the other aspects of our mission statement?
  6. What are some ways that you try to reflect the message and culture of the Kingdom in your life? How can you grow or stretch yourself in this area?
  7. Something very simple that you could do is to start praying for God to give you His heart for the lost. Pray for the atmosphere and culture to change around you. You might find that people who come into your sphere are hungry for God!
May we all endeavor to be the hands and feet of Jesus Christ on the earth as we live out our lives. Be blessed as you go out and reach the world!
]]> Tue, 28 Sep 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=48421 <![CDATA[The Finger of God]]> In this week’s sermon we heard from Dr. Steve Mandell as he shared with us about the finger of God in our lives. He showed us in a clear way how the finger of God has operated in the past, and how it operates in our lives today. Click the link named "Enclosure" above to download this sermon summary in a PDF file.
We saw that the purpose of the Finger of God was three fold:

1. Expression – It is used by God to express both His will and direction for our lives.

2. Attention – It brings our focus to what He is focusing on, either in our lives or the world.

3. Emphasis – It highlights what God is doing in our lives.

Scriptural Context Applied to Spiritual Reality:

1. The Finger of God is creative

a. It results in New Birth and Transformation

2. The Finger of God points to Life/direction

a. It results in Obedience and Guidance

3. The Finger of God points to Judgment… Sin

a. It exposes in light and then leads to healing by pointing though our sin to Jesus.

4. The Finger of God heals through Jesus Christ

a. It touches the depths of our need.

b. Desperation opens our heart/will to receive.

5. Finger of God points to Repentance

a. It points to hypocrisy and releases the sinner.

6. The Finger of God comforts

a. It wipes away our tears.

Personal Application:

1. The fact that God is active and present in our lives is truly amazing. Please take few minutes to reflect upon this fact and tell Him how grateful you are for His love.

2. Was there a particular example from Scripture regarding the finger of God that struck you more than the others? If so, why?

3. When you look at your life and the decisions that you make day by day, how would you say is your life being influenced by the finger of God?

4. In this season of your life, do you see one or two aspects of the finger of God in a greater way than the other aspects?

5. Are there areas in your life in which you desire to see more of the finger of God? If yes, in what way and why?

May our hearts be more aware of and open to the significant touch of the finger of God in this season of life!

]]> Tue, 21 Sep 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=48103 <![CDATA['Keys to Successful Fathering']]>

During his message (MP3, 28MB) on Father’s Day, we heard Pastor Ernest Custalow share about the value of good fatherhood in his sermon, “Keys to Successful Fathering”. Pastor Ernest drew a comparison from scriptures between Abraham and Eli (Genesis 18:17-19, 1 Samuel 2:27-29, and 1 Samuel 3:11-13). We saw from the Scriptures the differences between good parenting and bad parenting. Safe to say we need to emulate Abraham and not Eli. In order for us to do this, we need to apply 9 keys in our fathering.

9 keys to successful fathering:

1. Be Present

2. Be Involved

3. Providing Opportunities For Interest

4. Providing Love

5. Providing Correction

6. Pray

7. Instruct Them

8. Model

9. Have Fun

Personal Application:

1. What are other examples from Scripture of good or poor fathers?

2. What are different ways that you can be present and involved in your children’s lives? How can you improve in this are?

3. In what ways did your parents provide opportunities for interest for you as you were growing up? Is there a way that you can do the same in your children’s lives? How do you think this will affect them?

4. When you provide love and correction, what does it look like? Does your child know that you love them when you correct and discipline them? What can you do to change their heart attitude and not just their outward behavior?

5. It is such a blessing to be able to pray for our children! Perhaps you can try and set a little challenge for yourself. Would you commit to pray for your children an additional 5 minutes each day for the next week? You will be amazed at what God can do in those few minutes.

6. We are called to instruct our children and to model life to them. 1 Corinthians 11:1 says, “Follow my example, as I follow the example Christ”. What are your strengths and weaknesses in modeling Christ to your children?

7. Having fun with your children involves doing something that is fun for them, not necessarily for you. How do you have fun with them?

In our day fathers cannot afford to be absent in the lives of their children. We pray that you would be successful in juggling the demands of life and spending quality time with your family as you become more aware of God’s role for you as a father.

]]> Tue, 27 Jul 2010 00:00:00 GMT http://www.gracechurchoffredericksburg.com/templates/default.asp?id=27353&PG=xCast&LID=7358&CID=45743 <![CDATA['Embracing a Personal Pentecost: Part 3']]>

Over the past few weeks we have seen that there are many symbols for the Holy Spirit in our lives. Some of these are Water, Wind, Fire, and Dove.

In the message this past Sunday Pastor Ernest Custalow introduced three new symbols of the Holy Spirit in our lives; Oil, Wine, and Seal.

Oil is a symbol for the anointing and was used for a special purpose, deliverance, unity, and worship.

Wine is a symbol for the joy of the Lord in our lives.

Seal is a symbol of ownership and belonging and gives one a sense of authenticity and affirmation. It is a pledge.

Personal Application:

1. What are some examples from scripture of people anointed by the Holy Spirit?

2. What special purpose are you called to do in this season of your life?

3. What are you doing in your life and relationships to “maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace”? (Eph. 4:3)

4. Is there joy in your life? When do you experience joy? How can you grow in joy?

5. Do you consider yourself to belong to God? Why is it exciting to consider the Holy Spirit as a pledge?

6. What are ways that the Spirit is at work in your life? What are the outward signs of the Spirit’s work? How can we grow in being more aware of the Spirit’s work in and through us?

What a great joy it is to know that we have the Holy Spirit in our lives and that we can live in the power of the Spirit and recognize the Spirit’s Activities in our lives by the different symbols. May you endeavor to grow in the Lord and to seek to have more of His Spirit in your life. As you seek to grow in God and lay down more of yourself for His glory, may you more fully, day by day, embrace a Personal Pentecost in your life.
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